Threatening to take your life for the one you love, if they don’t love you back, is like saying to Allah: ” I love You (Allah) so much, that I am going to take my life for You. 

Everyone is unique

Allah, who gave you your life, gave it to you so you can live for Allah, according to His rules and prohibitions. Being suicidal is a great expression of major ungratefulness. Because Allah has blessed everyone differently. Since everyone is unique, no one has exactly the same skills. So build your self-esteem and self-worth by remembering what you’re good at doing. Just because someone doesn’t love you back, doesn’t mean you’re un-lovable. There are over 7 billion people in this world. I’m sure you’ll find someone. One-sided love is very tricky. We can blame the media, bollywood, hollywood, who glorifies falling in love and being in love. The truth is the fase of infatuation isn’t long, and after marriage a couple of months into every marriage, every possible couple has to work hard to stay in love. 

Turn To Allah

When you forget your blessings, everything seems negative. Even the food and drink tastes bitter. No matter how much you give an ungrateful person, he will not be thankful. Allah dislikes ungratefulness. And for those who show ungratefulness, He doesn’t answer their prayers. When we have found the root of the problem, the cure is, count your blessings. Say: “I seek refuge in being ungrateful. Ya Allah, grant me to win in the struggle to perfect the gratefulness and thankfulness of my soul, my heart and my body”. Aameen. 

Ya Allah, Grant Us Sound Faith

And remember you will have a good and happy life, even if you don’t achieve someone you love. But you without Allah, you without being obedient to Allah and good sound faith, is doomed in this world and the next, no matter who your spouse is. May Allah increase our imaan and guidance and love for being obedient to Him. Aameen.