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Everyone wants to protect the people they care for. No matter what religion, color, ethnicity you have. You try your best to help, protect, provide for the people you love. If their air is polluted in your city, and your child has allergies or asthma, you will do everything you can to move to a place where he can live a healthy life. If and when we hear about a disease that is spreading because of a virus, almost every family member are eager to help those they love to take a vaccine against it. People are afraid of contagious diseases. When any person is infected with a contagious disease, that person is transferred to a special room in the hospital. Each and every who goes in and out has to wear special clothing. And the things that goes into the room, has to be special cleaned. This is to prevent the disease from spreading to the whole community or town.

The Types Of Diseases Are Many

Some have psychological diseases. Some has physical sickness. Some has sickness in their soul/heart. The last type of sickness, the sickness of the spiritual heart. The place where feelings, emotions take life. Both good and bad. Since we are talking about sickness, I mean feelings like, envy, jealousy, hate, harshness, backbiting, lying, arrogance, making fun of others, looking down on others, slander, etc. Something negative. Since niyah, ikhlas and integrity comes from the spiritual heart. The quality of these three, will affect the disease of the heart. If our heart is diseased, there is no way we will have pure good niyah, ikhlas or integrity. So as being a muslim. If we want Allah to accept our deeds, we have to correct this. Or else no matter how big or gracious deeds we are doing, or people think we are doing, it will be rejected by Allah. What good will it do for us, if the good we do is rejected, in the final account? Ya Allah, grant us to win the struggle of perfectly getting rid of our diseases in our spiritual heart. Aamen.

Choose Good Company And Halal Fun

A spiritual alive heart, who knows the value of spirituality and good behaviour, will not be able to spend time with people who has diseases in their hearts. Their idea of halal fun, differs. A spiritually dead heart, doesn`t mind going to places where he / she can do more sins, like backbiting, lying, slander, vicious tongue, chugl khaur, etc. The heart is dead meaning, these sins doesn`t seem bad. They have fun doing these sins. It`s darkening their heart making it black. On the other side, we have a heart who is spiritually alive, he / she is aware of the effects of sins on their life. They want to make sure that the fun they are doing is actually allowed in Islam. Doing sins, that increase your punishments, is not funny. But rather doing deeds that make their ranks raised in this world and the next, is fun. In other words, when these people step out of their house, towards work or school or any event, they will do the background check, how can I spend my day, doing the right matters, correctly, and also be in constant struggle of correcting myself in the process, because I really want to earn those rewards, without them being rejected. So someone they know, invites them to an event. They will ask for the details. Will there be music there? Will there be a mix gathering between the genders? What is the dress code of the event? hijabi or non-hijabi? What kind of people are attending? Sinners or practising muslims? Will there be halal food? Where is it? How will I be able to get there safely, while also in hijab? From these questions one can imagine, these people doesn`t play with their life. Going on an event, where they might commit sins, is a big issue. They do not want to increase in sins. These people are serious about where they want to spend their eternity. Spending time with people who has diseases in the heart can be very contagious. And it does have an effect on our lives. That is why it is so important to help oneself, to only attend events , where these matters shouldn`t be any issue. There is a reason why Allah has said, that the majority of people in hell-fire will be women. One of the reason is the sins of the tongue. We who have been raised in this community, knows how fast any information travels, before the entire community is talking about it. In other words. We aren`t doing enough when it comes to increasing the healthy-ness of our spiritual heart. How can we explain how fast the whole community knows something, if we muslims in the community weren`t backbiters? If we were obeying Allah and protecting ourself from the sins of the tongue, the info would have died a permanent death, with the first who heard it. Instead the reality is that everyone knows it, within in day.

An Act Of Worship With Highest Reward And Acceptance

If and when we are able to correct our niyah, ikhlas, quality of deed, our deeds will be rewarded and accepted with the highest rewards. No matter how little the deed is. Our intention will be to do every deed for the sake of Allah. I will please my spouse for the sake of Allah. I will fulfil my duties towards my children for the sake of Allah. I will work with integrity at my school and work, for the sake of Allah. I will be good to neighbours, to strangers, to kin for the sake of Allah. I will be good to animals for the sake of Allah. I will help the community for the sake of Allah. When we are able to have these kinds of intentions, Allah isn`t stingy in rewarding us. Allah, has made us because he wants us to come back to Him in a good obedient way. When we are doing good deeds with right intentions and ikhlas, the same right intention and ikhlas will protect us from doing bad deeds. I am not going to lie, because Allah dislikes dishonesty. I am not going to backbite, because Allah dislikes eating your own brothers flesh. I am not going to be selfish and only think about myself. I am not going to slander other people. I am not going to help a marriage break. I am not going to only think about my rights, but I will balance that with also thinking about my duties. If and when we are able to correct ourselves by helping our spirituality to grow, every deed of our conduct, will become an act of worship. Because the intention and sincerity is correct. We aren`t only in the state of ibadah when we are in salah, but also when we are good to our spouse, take care of our children, fulfil our duties for the sake of pleasing Allah. Even that day our spouse is angry at us, we dig in our goodwill, to be good to him / her. I know how difficult fitnah is for a man when he steps out of the house, I will make sure I please my husband sufficiently every day. I know my wife, has had a tough day, I will make dinner for her today. Our parents get angry at us because of their old age, trying to practice sabr with them. My teen is giving my a hard time, maybe he /she is need of more positive attention. When we feed our spiritual heart with Allah`s remembrance our goodwill increases, and we are able to do more for Allah`s Creation. We want to please Allah, to gain Allahs love and because we want to thank Him. Allah has said, You have not thanked me, if you haven`t thanked people. So when we are grateful to others, because we have so many matters we have been helped, we are thanking Allah. And Allah will love us more. And a true alive spiritual heart, wants Allah`s love. When we do good deeds to please Allah and thank Him, He loves us and make the good righteous, also love us. There is no better validation of being a good person, than that the Creator of everything in this Universe, is saying, that He loves you. Ya Allah, make us of those You love. Ya Allah make us of those Hazoor Paak pbuh loves. Ya Allah make us of those, hadrat Jibreel alayhisalam loves. Aamen. Ya Allah, grant us to win the struggle of purifying our hearts from the diseases it has, with tawbah and repentance and shining it up with dhikr of You, every day. Aamen. Ya Allah grant us to win the struggle of correcting our niyah, ikhlas and quality of every deed, so every deed of our conduct is filled with sunnah and becomes an act of worship, which You, Allah accept with the highest rewards and acceptance. Aamen. Grant this to me, my family, my friends, and all ummati, till the end of time. Grant us to win the struggle of perfecting the quality of the purity of our heart, of our soul, of our deeds, of our speech, of our thoughts, of our conduct all the time. Aamen summa aamen.

Threatening to take your life for the one you love, if they don’t love you back, is like saying to Allah: ” I love You (Allah) so much, that I am going to take my life for You. 

Everyone is unique

Allah, who gave you your life, gave it to you so you can live for Allah, according to His rules and prohibitions. Being suicidal is a great expression of major ungratefulness. Because Allah has blessed everyone differently. Since everyone is unique, no one has exactly the same skills. So build your self-esteem and self-worth by remembering what you’re good at doing. Just because someone doesn’t love you back, doesn’t mean you’re un-lovable. There are over 7 billion people in this world. I’m sure you’ll find someone. One-sided love is very tricky. We can blame the media, bollywood, hollywood, who glorifies falling in love and being in love. The truth is the fase of infatuation isn’t long, and after marriage a couple of months into every marriage, every possible couple has to work hard to stay in love. 

Turn To Allah

When you forget your blessings, everything seems negative. Even the food and drink tastes bitter. No matter how much you give an ungrateful person, he will not be thankful. Allah dislikes ungratefulness. And for those who show ungratefulness, He doesn’t answer their prayers. When we have found the root of the problem, the cure is, count your blessings. Say: “I seek refuge in being ungrateful. Ya Allah, grant me to win in the struggle to perfect the gratefulness and thankfulness of my soul, my heart and my body”. Aameen. 

Ya Allah, Grant Us Sound Faith

And remember you will have a good and happy life, even if you don’t achieve someone you love. But you without Allah, you without being obedient to Allah and good sound faith, is doomed in this world and the next, no matter who your spouse is. May Allah increase our imaan and guidance and love for being obedient to Him. Aameen. 

the worst loneliness is being without allahI was so far away from Allah. I had people around me. Friends, family, job, life. But being far away from Allah, it felt like dead. Like something is dead inside of me. I was afraid of my own shadow. My own hand. No one helped me to find Allah. Not as much as I needed Allah. I had to struggle to find Him. To come close to Him. To treasure Him. To struggle to achieve His Love.

Like The Air I Breathe

Now that I see other people who are far away from His Path. I feel so bad. I want to hug them to tell them. No matter what rizk you have in life, you will never be satisfied if you are far away from Allah. I know how hard it is to struggle, to find Him. I want to give out a hand for those who have no one to help them to find Him. Because I know how it feels like to not have Him. It hurts, it pains. I don`t know what to say than this: Find your way back to Him. No happiness is any happiness without Him. No kind of rizk, blessing will ever be a blessing without Him. All beings need Allah more than we need this air we are breathing. When we are not aware of this need, and not struggling to get near Him. Than we are truly lost. Whatever good or bad will happen in our life, we will be lost.

Worth Less Than Zero

If we have Allah, whatever good or bad happens in our life, we will succeed. The biggest treasure is not this dunya or anything in it. The biggest treasure is to love Allah, and struggle to live true to His cause, the way He wants us to live. That is how, in the moment you might lose everything, if you have Allah, and You love him, He can give you contentment in your heart, also at that moment. But if you win the dunya, and lose your faith in Him, no matter how big gain you think you have, all of it is worth, less than zero. Having faith, imaan, is everything. Without faith, imaan in Allah, we will be in loss forever. May Allah help us to preserve it and help other souls find their way back to him. If they only understood, how important this matter is for them. They would have taken out time for it. May Allah helps us find our way back to Him. Aameen.

killing, muslims, casualtiesPeople are still giving their condolences to the killing of jews that happened in world war 2, where (some say) that 6 million jews were murdered. Although we don`t know the exact number or if the number is correct. The jews have been given a veto in almost every case that matters them, because of this brutally killing for about 70 years ago. I do not agree with killing of any jews. But I either agree with killing of any, atheist, christian, muslim of any cultural background either. If the jews can still use the card of world war two 70 years after their war is over, why is no one paying attention to the cards of muslims which is bleeding and hurt because of its casualties at least the last 15 years or more. Why aren`t we doing anything about the muslims in Palestine, Burma, Central Africa where they are brutally killed just because they are muslims until today?

Is a muslim life of no value to non-muslims? Only if there is a casuality of their own ethnicity does the media put any preferences of the case to be put on front page of any media. Do we only want good for ourselves and have forgotten the whole humanity? Isn`t people with black or yellow color as much worth as a white person? The killing and brutality won`t stop until we want for others what we want for ourselves. Look at yourself in the mirror. Is that the heritage you want to leave to your children. As long as they aren`t killing any of our people, we don`t mind? We need to wake up. Enough lives have been killed. May Allah help us all to want the peace for all of humanity.

forgiveness1We often hear talk about people and forgiveness, but seldom hear people talk about forgiving themselves. We all need that. I can talk about each and every that has done something in their life that they later on did regret. It is important that we are able to also forgive ourselves for the faults we have done in the past. And don`t go on being depressed about that.

Each and every has one time or the other been regretful of something in their life. It is important that we are able to set our mind to understand that if it wouldn`t have been for all the ups and downs we have experienced throughout our life we would maybe not have been where we are right now. If you love where you are today, be thankful for everything that has happened in your life until today. Every bad experience give us wisdom in how we are to behave in the future. It shapes us in these beings we are and have become. So be grateful for that.

Every decision we make directs us to our destiny. If it`s meant to happen no one in this world can stop it. If it`s meant for someone else no one can keep it for you. Simply do your best and trust Allah and everything will happen for the best in sha Allah.

suicidalKnow that your life is precious 🙂 Every life is precious. Even if some person wouldn`t have been your closest friend, their worth is not measurable, because each and every one of us is rare in our own way. There is not any other person in this world that is exactly the way you are. You are one of a kind. Be happy. Be proud of being you, the one and only.

Sometimes we experience ups and downs in our life. Everyone knows how it feels like when one is on the lowest point in our life, because most of us has one way or the other been through that point or know someone who has been through something like that. I just want to use this post as saying that even if life is tough right now don`t give up on it. It is important that we treasure our lives. Most of us are more lucky than most of the people. Because we have food, clothing, houses, jobs, family, safety, friends, and a right to freely practice our religion. Living in the west we have what most of people do not have.

When things doesn`t go as planned, remember that for every turn in your life Allah has made a path that is chosen for you to walk. Have trust in Allah and know that He is the one that can fix everything and make your situation the best. Trust in him for even in sickness to give you things that makes you grateful. Know that our live is given to us from our Creator, He will ask us for how we spent it. Therefore who would dare to kill something he/she himself doesn`t even own. Every life is a precious gift where Allah is testing us whether we do good or bad.

People that become so depressed that they think of suicide, should understand that their life is not their own property. If they don`t take good care of themselves Allah will ask them of it in their afterlife. The people who deliberately take their own life will die like that death for eternity in the afterlife. So don`t even take that chance. If somethings comes your way than be happy for those glad tidings. If it goes to someone else, know that there are better things coming your way, so just be patient and wait for those wonderful moments that you will be blessed with in the future in sha Allah.

And by all means use your own abilities to the fullest to do something for our religion Islam. One way or the other you will get back tenfolds in your achievements if it is solely for Islam in sha Allah. Good things take time, be patient and know that good things happen to good people, so just be plane good and let Allah do the rest 😉

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!

USE YOUR OWN VOICE TO RAISE YOUR OPINION!

Nasiyat..

(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)

:) W & R one 2 one :)

(",) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (",)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
InshaAllah
Ameen summa ameen

Når du er forent med en
du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
Inderlighet. God
giverglede skaper
kjærlighet:)

Mood :)

Overjoyous :) I wonder which song is always on my mind (",)

(“,) Always on my mind (“,)

Be mine all the time,
never cross the line,
I`m a one man woman,
I don`t share
what`s mine,
never settle for less..

Song of the moment :)

:) If you just love me, i will let you see, how more you need? :)

:) Discover enlightenment
holding your hand.. :)