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jealousyThere is two sides of everything. Sometimes something can be a blessing other times it could be the very opposite. Sometimes when one see other people`s blessings one forget what we ourselves are blessed with and get a bad energy out from us. It could perhaps be because we have never tried to count our blessings or write them down. The one way of accepting that we are worthful we need to know how blessed we are. That would indeed increase the positive energy into our lives.

We should cut the bad habits like jealousy and envy, and let ourselves shine the way through our own destiny for what we are destined to. What is jealousy? Jealousy is when one feel bitter or unhappy when others succeed in something. Envy is when we want that blessing to be taken away from that person and given to us. Both of this feelings should be dealt with a manner that kicks them out of our lives in sha Allah.

How can we manage that? I read a status at a islamic Facebook page about that. Why make dua to Allah that someone loses the things he /she are blessed with? Why not instead excel our duas and try to make dua for the things that we ourselves can achieve. I mean Allah has so much to offer, so big treasures, which is more than enough to fill our lives. Why do we then see so constricted to only something or someone and rather expand our horizon for something better. Instead of praying and wishing that some other people don`t succeed in their matters, try to change your thinking in praying that they increase in their blessings instead. Have we not thought about the hadith of our Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) that when we make supplications for other muslims in their absence, an angel by our side says ” ameen and may you have something similar”. Won`t this little habit bring more blessings into our lives. How can we think so little when Allah is so Great 🙂

I`m sure that praying for others will bring more barakah in your blessings as well as it being a prayer for yourself as well. Think bigger, aim for something bigger and by the will of Allah, He will increase. If we instead hope for the downfall of others we will lose all that is mentioned above. Why put all this at risk?

May Allah give us help in understanding how blessed we really are and give us guidance to pray for each other and aim higher. This will in sha Allah help us get rid of any bad habits like jealousy and envy, in sha Allah, ameen summa ameen.

words of encouragementEach and every one of us wants to see others happy. Well most of us. What do you do when you are happy, but a few others are sad? Are you the chirpy one that doesn`t even notice that others are sad or are you the sensitive one that sees the face behind the other people`s smiles? What do you do about that?

Sometimes one can see what kind of mood people are in by just listening to them talk. Other times their body-language says it all but themselves are quiet. I guess some people have a Phd in reading others while others are totally unfamiliar about others moods.

Well, no matter how you feel. You will feel even better if you use your strength with words of encouragement towards others when they are down. It doesn`t mean that you should keep on giving them false hope, when they have lost something. It just means that you are letting them know about all the other things in their life, that they are taking for granted.

What a waste. I mean you have everything in your life, and even more than others, but you still want something you can`t get and see it like everything is lost. Think about everything you have in your life. If you start counting about every thing you are blessed with, you will get tired, but will not be able to count it. Everything is a blessing. There is a blessing in giving, and it is a blessing in withholding. That is because Allah knows best, we haven`t seen the future, but He knows.

If we are grateful for the blessings in our life, we will also achieve more from Allah. He loves those humans that are grateful. We should try to not take our lives for granted, before they pass by, and we have come till the end. It is so important to take those moment in between to say Alhamdolillah, thanks for everything Allah 🙂

If someone you know doesn`t know about the blessing of thankfulness, let them know today. One “thumbs up” can do miracles. By spreading some positivity you will get it back sometime one way or the other. So there is no loss in it. Cheer up your surroundings and you will get such a positivity boost from it, that you will cheer up yourself as well, in sha Allah 😉

say alhamdolillahThere always comes times when we are more thankful, and other times when we are less thankful. Sometimes the reason behind could be that we aren`t really aware of the blessings we are surrounded with. How can one become more aware and become grateful for that?

One simple formula that each and every can apply is to not compare yourself with people whom have more than you, rather compare them with those whom have less? There is always a good thing and a bad thing about a circumstance. For instance those whom are married, wants to have time for themselves, when those whom are single wants to be with the one they love. Those whom have kids, want to sleep longer without interruption, while some people whom aren`t married yet, are longing to have children. Those who are home are longing for a job, while those who work are looking forward to the upcoming vacation or wants some free-time off the work.

This is natural. When you have something and you look at someone else that has something better you automatically think that he/she is in a better position than you and you want what he/she has. What has helped me is to look things in perspective when this happens. There will always be someone whom has something I don`t have, but then again, I might have something they don`t have, right? So that makes one feel more thankful for those blessings one is surrounded with, in it`s awkward way 😉

Why not try to think like this next time you become jealous of anyone else? And you would in sha Allah see yourself becoming more thankful than before 🙂

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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January 2020
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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

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(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)


(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

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Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
Ameen summa ameen

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