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Threatening to take your life for the one you love, if they don’t love you back, is like saying to Allah: ” I love You (Allah) so much, that I am going to take my life for You. 

Everyone is unique

Allah, who gave you your life, gave it to you so you can live for Allah, according to His rules and prohibitions. Being suicidal is a great expression of major ungratefulness. Because Allah has blessed everyone differently. Since everyone is unique, no one has exactly the same skills. So build your self-esteem and self-worth by remembering what you’re good at doing. Just because someone doesn’t love you back, doesn’t mean you’re un-lovable. There are over 7 billion people in this world. I’m sure you’ll find someone. One-sided love is very tricky. We can blame the media, bollywood, hollywood, who glorifies falling in love and being in love. The truth is the fase of infatuation isn’t long, and after marriage a couple of months into every marriage, every possible couple has to work hard to stay in love. 

Turn To Allah

When you forget your blessings, everything seems negative. Even the food and drink tastes bitter. No matter how much you give an ungrateful person, he will not be thankful. Allah dislikes ungratefulness. And for those who show ungratefulness, He doesn’t answer their prayers. When we have found the root of the problem, the cure is, count your blessings. Say: “I seek refuge in being ungrateful. Ya Allah, grant me to win in the struggle to perfect the gratefulness and thankfulness of my soul, my heart and my body”. Aameen. 

Ya Allah, Grant Us Sound Faith

And remember you will have a good and happy life, even if you don’t achieve someone you love. But you without Allah, you without being obedient to Allah and good sound faith, is doomed in this world and the next, no matter who your spouse is. May Allah increase our imaan and guidance and love for being obedient to Him. Aameen. 

Sisterhood, brotherhood, world, earth, united, care jpgMost people with a caring nature and good values, would happily give a helping hand to anyone in difficulty, even if they wouldn`t personally know who the other person is. Sometimes without even thinking of it having any consequence for themselves in the future.

Are You Careful Who You Help?

As time has become more rough and many people are in difficulties nowadays, many people with good intentions of helping others, are experiencing corruption in many cases. Many examples are known from the media, were good and caring people help others in need and are in return either hurt or somehow criminals steal their belongings. Leaving them in worse case, than if they would`ve not cared and just walked away, like they didn`t see that someone needed help. Since the rise of corruption is at its peak, many good people are now very aware of the fact that they have to be careful who they trust and help. Giving a helpful hand, is not the same as for a few years ago. The consequence is of course that people who are entitled of help, doesn`t get any help they need. Because we don`t know if they are true/sincere. So we choose to do a background check before we send any money or give charity through any company. We don`t always know if the money is truly being utilized where it was sent for.

Ulterior Motives For Helpfulness

When our parents bring us to life in this world. They do not bring us in order to make us dependent of them. Most parents want us to be able to live a good life and be independent. If we are too dependent of them, one day when they no more, we would have difficulty adapting to this. Their goal is to raise children who can contribute positively to the community, muslims and non-muslims. If a police-woman sees a man wanting to take suicide from a bridge, and she manages to talk him out of it, believing that he has a purpose in life, even though it looks a bit dark right now, doesn`t mean that the police-woman had ulterior motives for being helpful. It is her duty. So when some people help other people, because of their softheartedness, believe in the good in them. Most of us are just practising the life of our Prophet pbuh. We can`t start spinning on the idea that she saved him, because she wants to marry him or would want some money in return for being helpful.

politenessWe Want Humanity To Win

Good-natured people are helping. Although so many countries are facing severe trials. Lets not be the reason why people stop believing in goodness. A life is precious no matter whose it is. To save a life is like saving humankind, and to take a life, is like killing mankind. -Quran 5:32. Allah sees and knows those who do good. Don`t come in the way of others success. If someone has helped you through a difficult situation, just supplicating for them when you pray, would be sufficient for you to repay the favour. You don`t have to be a part of their life for it. It so happens often that when someone from the opposite gender helps us, we think they help us because they love us etc. It is important that we regain believe in kindness. Not always mistaking kindness /politeness for flirtation/love. Bottom line, kind people with a sound heart and good intentions help others out of difficulty. That`s it. Nothing more. Don`t expect or put so much in a nice gesture that because of this, people stop doing good deeds. If we get the idea that a good gesture will backfire, goodness will decrease. People falling on a sidewalk, where thousands are walking, won`t be helped by anyone. We don`t want that kind of world? We want a safe world where people help each other. No matter if anyone is rich or poor, just because we want humanity to win. If people fear for their family’s security when they help other people, they might stop helping other people in need. We don`t want such a society. Very few people are so un-selfish that they dare to risk their loved ones lives in order to save someone they barely know. Our a priority is our family. May Allah make it easy for us to practice kindness without it backfiring. Aameen.

deen, dunya 1It`s important that we don`t forget where we came from. Often you see people having nice cars or clothes and they are like in heaven 9 because it. That is a good thing and a bad thing. If you can afford it, yes buy the things you need, but there is no need to be extravagant. Don`t overdo it. That rule should be applied in every aspect of our life.

Sometimes you know people achieve a lot of success. Like new car, great job, beautiful wife/husband etc. If we don`t use these things to make our akhirah better, they are of no use. For instance, you use that nice car and go to mosques nearby and far away, to join the salah and other of their activities. The same car can also be used to go clubbing at parties. You have this great job, where you are making a difference by helping people in need. Or it could cause you to work that you forget the salah in the day. You may have a beautiful wife/husband that may treat you like a treasure, but are they making you come closer to Allah or making you skip the salah and other important obligations you have as a muslim/muslimah. Your spouse can be your ticket to hell or jannah. It`s in your own hands. Are you making choice that bring you closer to Paradise, or are you too much occupied in this world. We are not going to be here forever. Are you going to choose deen over dunya or dunya over deen? What you choose today, is going to affect the rest of your life, and maybe eternity. Be wise ❤ ❤

Some people think that the world has had so much progress. We are living in the 21 century and have the newest technologies. Different countries are so behind us in the west. Life is so much easier and better now than what it was before. What we see as a progress could also be regression. Just think. People living in asia or africa. They may not have and iPhone, iPad, Facebook, twitter or laptop, but they have each other. When we see these children they have the brightest smiles and are laughing and hugging each other. If you see the same age group in any country in the west, most of them are busy with their iPhone, Samsung and forget the most important stuff, just to talk together and be present in the moment.

deen, dunyaAnother point I would want to emphasize is what kind of society are we living in. Is it as advanced and good as we think it is? There is more cases of people who are depressed or suicidal and an increasing number of people with mental diseases. We have everything materialistic but not that much tranquility/sakina. Family structure has changed. Lesser joint family system. More people who live alone and are lonely. People are busy with their stuff and think that they have it all. If we look back in time when the Prophet pbuh lived he and the following generations of tabieen after him pbuh they experienced real contentment in their life. They didn`t own that much but were rich of heart. They had better manners than what we do nowadays. They had faith like a rock, nothing could move it, with firm believe in the afterlife. They maintained good relations with their relatives. Families lived together. They were people of great character. THEY had it all.

It all depends of the set of values that are important to you. What we see as development could actually be regression. To achieve those heights as the sahaba and tabieen we need to go back to our roots. We need to choose deen over dunya. Only then will we prosper in this world and the next. May Allah help us and guide us. Ameen summa ameen.

suicidalKnow that your life is precious 🙂 Every life is precious. Even if some person wouldn`t have been your closest friend, their worth is not measurable, because each and every one of us is rare in our own way. There is not any other person in this world that is exactly the way you are. You are one of a kind. Be happy. Be proud of being you, the one and only.

Sometimes we experience ups and downs in our life. Everyone knows how it feels like when one is on the lowest point in our life, because most of us has one way or the other been through that point or know someone who has been through something like that. I just want to use this post as saying that even if life is tough right now don`t give up on it. It is important that we treasure our lives. Most of us are more lucky than most of the people. Because we have food, clothing, houses, jobs, family, safety, friends, and a right to freely practice our religion. Living in the west we have what most of people do not have.

When things doesn`t go as planned, remember that for every turn in your life Allah has made a path that is chosen for you to walk. Have trust in Allah and know that He is the one that can fix everything and make your situation the best. Trust in him for even in sickness to give you things that makes you grateful. Know that our live is given to us from our Creator, He will ask us for how we spent it. Therefore who would dare to kill something he/she himself doesn`t even own. Every life is a precious gift where Allah is testing us whether we do good or bad.

People that become so depressed that they think of suicide, should understand that their life is not their own property. If they don`t take good care of themselves Allah will ask them of it in their afterlife. The people who deliberately take their own life will die like that death for eternity in the afterlife. So don`t even take that chance. If somethings comes your way than be happy for those glad tidings. If it goes to someone else, know that there are better things coming your way, so just be patient and wait for those wonderful moments that you will be blessed with in the future in sha Allah.

And by all means use your own abilities to the fullest to do something for our religion Islam. One way or the other you will get back tenfolds in your achievements if it is solely for Islam in sha Allah. Good things take time, be patient and know that good things happen to good people, so just be plane good and let Allah do the rest 😉

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!

USE YOUR OWN VOICE TO RAISE YOUR OPINION!

Nasiyat..

(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)

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(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
InshaAllah
Ameen summa ameen

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