When a man divorces his wife, it is stated in a hadith, that he should get married as soon as possible. Even if he is 80 years and knows that he will only live for three months. That is how great importance Allah gives to fulfilling ones desires halal way, to reduce fitnah (tribulations). The… Continue reading Why a husband needs to win his wife’s heart everyday
One great blessing of paradise is that no-one has to strive to keep their husbands attention, after they have reached jannah. As a wife has to do in dunya. The spouses will be pure. And Allah has made paradise without any kind of sin. So the married couples will live an eternity of fidelity. Only… Continue reading One great blessing of paradise
The recipe for a good life and marriage is taqwa. Desires does not go away by marriage. Marriage give permission (halal way) for intimacy. The fitnah in the world will still be there. Desires need to be tamed by increasing godconsciousness (taqwa). If both husband and wife work together to attain and maintain a sound… Continue reading Tame Desires With Taqwa
Many men talk about having more than one wife. According to Islam, it is allowed. The time of the sahaba, many widows needed support, and men were allowed to marry them. The orphans would get helped, and the women get supported. In that time the sahaba raa didn`t either see any bad in marrying any… Continue reading Integrity Is Everything. Especially In Marriage
Every hijabi girl or woman is struggling with this. How can I feel beautiful, at the same time, win the struggle of perfecting my hijab. Most men look for beauty in a woman. If both men and women were taught how and what beauty actually is, this struggle wouldn`t have been so damaging for the… Continue reading How Can You Feel Beautiful About Yourself?
😍 beautifying your hijab. Attracts attention. 🤤 shaping eyebrows. Still attracting attention. 💋💅 using make-up to beautify yourself. Attracts attention. 😏😉 not lowering your gaze. 🕌 using perfume, when you go outside, easily attract attention. 👠using shoes that makes noise. Attracts attention. 👚 using clothing that it is possible to see through. Clothed, yet naked. … Continue reading Common Mistakes Of Hijabis / Generel Muslims