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When we say or do something hurtful to our spouse, it creates a distance between you two. 
For example
Lying – 5 meters
Harshness – 7 meters
Unloyalty – 10 meters
Unfaithfulness – 100 meters
When we are good to our spouse and do deeds and actions that makes your spouse feel “respected”, “loved” etc, it increases the intensity of the closeness you two share. 
For example
Kiss on the forehead – 5 meters closer
Flowers – 15 meters closer
Warm dinner – 100 meters closer
Undivided attention – 20 meters closer
When we sum up these two meters which bring closer and that which makes distance, if the sum is negative, we have been making more distance from misbehaviour. If the sum is positive, we have done more good behaviour. 
Just like that, we sum up every day, every week every month and year. If both in the marriage continously work on themselves and their relationship, most of the time, they will have a close fulfilling relationship. When both do deeds that bring each other closer, no matter the setbacks, you will overcome it. Because you two have made a good solid foundation. There is never to late to do something special together that wipes out many of the previous mistakes. Make effort to learn your spouse’s “love-languages”, “respect-languages” and “forgiveness-languages”. Just by knowing it, it is 50% done. Now all you two need to do is, speak these languages in deeds. 
Ya Allah, grant every ummati a good marriage. Aamen. Protect every marriage til the end of time. Aamen. 

When we learn something from our teacher. He (she) lights a torch of knowledge (wisdom) in us. The love for remembering Allah increases. Now it’s upto us, to take care of it, help it grow and to pass it on to others, and invite them to the mehfil. The love of Allah, is such, that no matter who your family, sibling, spouse, children, work, color, ethnicity is, without that love, everything we have gained is bitter. With the love and obedience of Allah, no matter how small achievement it is, Allah makes it good for us, increases baraqah through it for us, blesses us through the achievement. When we invite other to the khair (dhikr mehfil), we wish for them something similar as we have. Inviting someone for the sake of Allah, means we are not helping them for any personal benefit, except that if they start with dhikr, they will pray for us, and our own baraqah increases in our life. What good they will do, will also benefit us with good deeds. And the khair becomes a sadqa jariyah (ongoing charity), that lasts longer than our life. When we pray salah or do dhikr, it is for our personal benefit. Allah doesn’t need our prayers. We are in need of Him. If we only pray for a certain matter to happen for us, and it doesn’t happen, we can’t let our practice of love and obedience for Allah, die because of that. No matter what your blessing is, Allah decreases the goodness from that blessing, if you are not obedient to Him (Allah). We need Allah, just as much as when we are the most succesful human on earth, as when we are of the most un-succesful person on earth, in dunya blessings. Success without Allah, is actually failure, no matter your salary, your children, status, spouse etc. Ya Allah, grant us to win the struggle of perfecting our niyah, our ikhlas, our integrity. Aamen. Ya Allah, help us increase in doing dhikr every day. Ya Allah, Help us successfully pass on the torch of the remembrance of Allah, for the sake of Allah, to others, so it can become an ongoing charity for us for many years. Ya Allah, grant us to win the struggle in correcting those faults in us, that are coming in our way of us learning what our teacher knows we lack. Grant us to reach our fullest potential in becoming the most succesful “muttaqi of imam” of our time. Aamen

Imagine if you are an organisation your company is listed on the stockmarket of Allah. Your price of every share is the value of each deed. The only one who will buy share in your company is those who see any kind of profit. If you are a good righteous muslims, people who cherish those qualities will want to befriend you, invest in you, support you, grow with you, in order to one day reap the reward: be united with You under Allahs Throne on judgement day, where you will be a friend of Akhirah. A friend who will stand witness for You and say, “this is a true believer”. Like Allah says: friends that day will be enemies, except for the righteous. Ya Allah, grant us to win the struggle to befriend all the righteous ummati to become our righteous friends of Akhirah. Accept this for me, my family, my friends and all ummati. Aameen ya Allah. 

prophet muhammad pbuh picture, sabz ghumbad, madinaMujhpe bhi chasme-karam e mere Aaqa karna
Haq tou mera bhi hain (na) rehmat ka takaza karna

Kankaron ka tere eejaz se woh bol uthna
Woh darakhton ka teri deed pe jhoma karna

Mujhpe bhi chasme-karam

Aaqa, tou kisi ko bhi uthata nahi apne dar se
Ke teri shan Aaqa, ke shayan nahi aisa karna

Mujhpe bhi chasme-karam

Aur un sahaba ki khush-atwaar nigahon ko salaam
Jin ka maslak tha tawaf-e-rukhe-zaiban karna

Mujhpe bhi chasme-karam

Mein ik zarra ho mujhe vusate sehra dede
Ke tere bas mein hei katron ko bhi darya karna

Mujhpe bhi chasme-karam

Mujhpe mehshar mein Naseer unki nazar par hi gayi
Kehne waale jise kehte hai khuda ka, karna

Mujphe bhi chasme-karam e mere Aaqa karna
Haq tou mera bhi hai rehmat ka takaza karna

-naat /nasheed read by Horia Faheem Qadri-

repentence opend doors for provision and rizk“A woman said: “My husband died when I was in my thirties, and I had five children, boys and girls, from him. My world turned dark around me, and I wept until I feared I would lose my sight. I complained about my bad luck and fell into depression and despair. My children were small, and our income was not sufficient. I was spending carefully from the little money that my father had left for us.

One day in my room, I turned on the radio, and tuned into the Holy Quran radio station. I heard a Shaykh say: The Messenger of Allah pbuh said: “Whoever prays to Allah a great deal for forgiveness, Allah will grant him relief from every distress and a way out from every hardship”.

So after that i began to pray a great deal of forgiveness, and told my children to do likewise. Only six months later, developers came, bought some old property of ours, and paid us millions for it. My son became the first student in his region to memorize the Quran, and he became a focus of people`s care. Our house was filled with blessings and we attained the best standards of living. Allah has kept all my sons and daughters safe and sound, and has taken away my worry , grief and depression. I have become the happiest woman”.

– From the book ” You can be the happiest woman in the world”.

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!

USE YOUR OWN VOICE TO RAISE YOUR OPINION!

Nasiyat..

(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)

Poetry

(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
InshaAllah
Ameen summa ameen

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