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love for your brother islamIn Ramadan at the end of the day big aftari`s awaits us. Even though we have restricted ourself during the day, we have abundance of food, when it is time to open the fast. The fast gives us an idea of how it is for those individuals whom doesn`t have as much as us. How does it feel when you don`t have enough for the essentials? Muslims fast for one month, though because of poor conditions some people can`t eat for several month`s. Can we imagine to be fasting all day, but not have the minimum nourishing food to eat at the end of the day. Going day by day listening to kids when they complain that they have a stomach ache because they are too hungry. One thing is that oneself is suffering but when one sees these poor angels suffering, that is unbearable and hurts. It hurts for others but it hurts the most for their parents. Seeing one child suffering, without being able to take the suffering away, is indeed devastating.

 

We have a choice to refrain from food

Not everyone has that. In some countries there are people whom would want to have the minimum to survive and earn their own money, have a family and live in security with them but they aren`t able because of the situation there. Are we able to imagine when there is fight for the food that is given to some people and only those who are strong enough are able to get the survival kit of food for a week or so.

 

They Have The Abilities But Not The Support

Most people want to earn the halal way for their family`s to provide for them. Here in Norway there are a few people who dies out of hunger, because the country takes care of all of it`s citizens even for those whom can`t provide for themselves. Back home most of the population of Pakistan are young adults. They have the education, but because of the system, they are not able to get hired without anyone put in a good word for them. Even though they might have the abilities and great results from the university, most of them have to work in underpaid jobs. They have the potential but aren`t given the chances because they doesn`t have the means.

 

Tension Is Increasing

When the youth aren`t given enough chances to do good work according to their abilities of course a lot of tension erupts. Their opinions doesn`t matter and they are easily oppressed. If some people in such a country wants to live in a halal matter, it becomes quite difficult. Imagine being somewhere where you can`t get documents from an office because they are asking for bribes. Unless you don`t pay them money that will go into their own pockets, they won`t do your work. Because of the inflation, ordinary people can`t afford the bare minimum to have a nutritous meal. There is not enough security for the families that lives there. Innocent people are killed and innocent people are jailed because of some crime some others have done. The people are deprived from their basic needs to keep them oppressed and diverted from doing something about how the country is ruled and their money utilized. Because of the cancer in the system of the country and the governments lack of control over the situation or willingness to do anything, people`s difficulties are increasing. The youths displeasure is increasing. Nothing can be done without eliminating the corruption in the system.

 

maslows behovshierarkiThe Leaders Will Have A Tougher Questioning.

Because they are responsible for their people`s need. The population is oppressed by the government for the essential to live a good life, like food, clothing, house, electricity, fuel for vehicles, security to prevent them to climb to the fifth row, see picture. They are keeping the people suffering so they don`t fight against the government. This has been going on for years. Roti/kapda/makan. The leaders are not taking care of their people? There was a time in the  Khalifat of the hadrat Umar raa, when he used to go around at night to see if anyone was suffering under his leadership. When he was asked about it, he said that even if one dog goes to sleep hungry, I will be answerable to Allah about it. What will then happen to a leader where most of his people are suffering. Does this not scare them? Or do they not believe in the hereafter? We all are going to be questioned about our life. The leader has a responsibility not only for their own but also for their people, and their questioning is going to be far more harsh. One day we are all going to stand in front of our Creator. Before we even stand for election, ask yourself are you compassionate about the people you are going to lead. If you don`t have the motivation to help them or guide them to success and reduce their sufferings, the job was never made for you. When the leaders will be compassionate for their people, only then will people be satisfied with them. May Allah help the ummah and ease their sufferings. Aameen summa aameen.

sunnah is helping around in the house, men, husband, fatherRamadan is a month to let our soul connect with Allah through ibaadah. It is important that all the family members get a chance to improve themselves, not only the men. Often the women in the house, daughter, sister, mother, wife does not get the chance to spend as much time for ibaadah because of the chores of the house. It is important that the whole family helps around, so that it doesn`t burden a few. Ramadan is not about the iftars and food we are going to eat at the end of the day, it is about getting closer to Allah and how can we possibly achieve that if we are over-burdened.

It is important that men help around the house more in ramadan. The same if you have children, keep them also busy helping. Good family ties kan only be kept from team work, we are in this together, one goal, and we help each other to do good. If ramadan is meant for us to forget the women in the house and overburdening them with our request for iftar meals, we are not living the essence of ramadan.

help me draw closer to you this ramadan.You are not the only one whom prayers are obligatory for. Your family must also pray. Make it easy for each other to pray. Give the women in your family breaks at salah time to complete the salah with khusoo and no concern for the food that is cooking. Men will be held accountable for every salah their daughters, sister, mother and wife missed or read being overburdened. Work chores can easily become family time, if we try to keep a good environment for each other. Maybe that is something that won`t make the chores that unwanted, especially by the children or teens. If these teens boys and girls are given good values from the start they will grow up and become an asset to the whole community, not only for themselves. Parents can teach them good qualities. It is vital that we give them time as the fragile age they are in. A good muslim is first and foremost good to his family. Ramadan is a time to grow spiritually. Make this a time for the whole family to help become better people and better muslims.

Laylatul Qadr

The night of Laylatul Qadr is better than thousand nights.

Abu Hurayra has narrated that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) has said: “Whoever stands in prayer during the night of Al-Qadr with faith and expecting reward from Allah, he will be forgiven for his previous sins. (Sahih Muslim).

It is said in the Quran: ” Therein is decreed every matter of decree”. (Quran 44:4). Qatadah and others have said: ” The matters are determined during it, and times of death and provisions are measured out (i.e. decided) during it”.

Remember to say a lot of dhikr like : ” Allahumma innaka a3ffowon tohibbol a3fva fa3fo anni”. Which means: O Allah! You are the Oft-Pardoning, You love to pardon, so pardon me”. (Recorded by Ahmad).

The nights of Al-Qadr is in the last ten days of Ramadan; the 21, 23, 25, 27 and the 29 night of Ramadan. And remember the whole Ummah in your prayers, in sha Allah. It is important to notice this fact that the night of a day starts the time after maghribh, the day before in Islam. For example, if you want to pray extra on the night of 23rd, that night is on the 22nd day from magribh time. Just saying so you don`t  miss it.

Shabbe-bharat

14 or 15 Shaban ke darmiyan joh raat hain us mein agle saal ke liye saari kismat likkhi jaati hain. Iskeliye ek vazifa hain merein paas which I want to share with you, so that each and every can benefit from it.
It`s on tuesday 4th of july after magribh, in Norway.
Magribh ke baad, isha ki namaz se pehle yeh parhein.

Nawafil on these kinds of days after maghribh:

2 rakaat nafl parhein, niyat karein vastein drazie-umr-bilkhair.
drud sharif parhein 11 martaba.
yasin parhein ek martaba.
21 martaba surah Ikhlas parhein.
drud sharif parhein 11 martaba.

Phir 2 rakaat nafl parhein, niyat karein vaste dafie-baliat.
drud sharif parhein 11 martaba.
yasin parhein ek martaba.
21 martaba surah Ikhlas parhein.
drud sharif parhein 11 martaba.

Phir 2 rakaat nafl parhein, niyat karein vaste farakie-rizk.
drud sharif parhein 11 martaba.
yasin parhein ek martaba.
21 martaba surah Ikhlas parhein.
drud sharif parhein 11 martaba.

Akhir mein agar aap ke paas hain to shabb-e-bharat ki dua parh lein ya Nisf-e-shaban ki dua. Apni dua mangein. Or koshish karein ke iss dua mein saari ummat-e-musalman ko shamil karein. Allah sab ke haq me behtar faisla karein. Ameen summa ameen.

Nisf e shabanYeh dua vaise to isha ke baad parhni hain, but I will inshaAllah read it after these nafls. And maybe again after isha. Allah kabool farmanein vaala hain. Ameen summa ameen.

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“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!

USE YOUR OWN VOICE TO RAISE YOUR OPINION!

Nasiyat..

(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)

Poetry

(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
InshaAllah
Ameen summa ameen

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du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
Inderlighet. God
giverglede skaper
kjærlighet:)

Mood :)

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