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an ideaEvery change starts with one person having an idea. He shares the idea with likeminded people, they develop it into something amazing and make a change. Either if it is in their personal, proffessional or business life, that is what it takes. One person whom believes in himself and loved ones that believes in his ideas, determination to give it all he`s got.


Believe in yourself

We have to believe in the fact that one person can make a change. If he starts with himself and with the help of Allah what is it that a person can`t do? People who accomplishes great business or somewhat success in work or personal life are those that are stubborn enough to not let any setback let them give up. They try a different approach every time they fall, which brings them one step nearer to their goal.


Experience comes from making mistakes

We learn by experience from making mistakes and that experience over time develops into wisdom. When we have somewhat wisdom, we know how to handle a situation and are better equipped to handle the circumstances in our life no matter how difficult they may seem. That is why we shouldn`t curse the fall or the setback, because it can actually be the reason why we succeed in something later in life.


Believe in your ideas

Yes we have to believe in our ideas, but at the same time, don`t start flying whenever you come up with something new. Sometimes it is quite important to do the necessary research if some other person is already working on a improwed version of what you came up with. It`s important that we calculate whether we have competition and the chances for us to succeed instead of them.


The world may not be ready for it

Another thing is that we can have a great idea which in itself can be brilliant for a great group of people. But maybe those people aren`t ready to accept it yet. Like we all have heard about a lot of people who where not succesful in their lifetime. Though after their death, their ideas were apppreciated and people further developed them into something amazing and they become known for it.


Hard work pays off

Nothing comes easy in life. We have to work hard to succeed. There is no shortcut to success, everyone has to take the stairs, one step at a time. As long as we don`t let setbacks decrease our determination and work hard for what we believe in, there is a big chance for success. Though we should also know that people whom are succesful are also envied by others whom aren`t as blessed as them. So we should try to not share all our victories with everyone. There might be someone there whom would love to do anything to be in our place. Make supplication and believe that Allah is the only One whom can make it easy for you. May Allah help and bless everyone. Ameen summa ameen.

friendsipsI know that this could be used against me, but I`m going to share anyways because there might be others out there in a similar circumstance. Everyone that has a friend knows how important their friendship is to them. We all need friends. Being a Muslimah, I would say I have thought more and more about the whole friendship topic. What kind of friend you have says a lot about you. If you are a good muslimah and want to excel in it, you would search for the right friend that could give you the right push so that you both can in sha Allah meet in Jannah.

My friends have probably noticed that I`m not as social as I were before. It is mostly because I want friends who wants to talk about Islam. Who want to discuss how to become a better muslimah. Who wants to live a muslimized life, even if we are in the West.

If it was anyone else they might not have any issue about it. They would most probably meet up frequently at the nearest mosque, and take it from there. But all my bad experiences of friends that have deceived me has made it so difficult for me to trust other people. Somehow it always seems like everyone want something in return when they are nice to me. And my previous efforts of going to the mosque have been terrible. I was treated quite bad and that has put a feeling of fear in me that people are going to treat me bad there.

I want a friend I can rely on in all times that shares the same interests as me. I know that people like that are likely to be at every muslim/islamic event. Though me being sort of afraid of big social gatherings have prevented me from attending those.

When one is married it is important that the husband doesn`t talk about his male friends to his wife and vice versa, because of fear of fitnah. Thoughts like that occupy my mind when I think about how it would be to have friendships after marriage.

It is very important for all people to have good friends. Someone they can share their opinions with, and helping each other in becoming better and to have those interesting discussions that you are always looking forward to have when you meet them.

For quite som time now I have been to gatherings that even if the people are muslim they don`t talk that much about Islam. So I feel like an outsider. Don`t get me wrong. It`s not that I know that much about Islam, it`s just that I want  to talk about things that are connected to our religion instead of other topics.

And then last but not least, what is a good friend? Someone who doesn`t look down on you even if you`re not as good a muslimah as them. Someone who pushes you to become better without thinking of you being inferior of them. Someone who prays for you because she wants to meet you in Jannah. Someone you can trust and talk about everything without being afraid of the person telling others. People you spend time with that are amazing and whenever you have met them and head home you feel uplifted instead of more depressed, if you understand what I mean. People with great manners that rub on over you too.

I remember back when I was younger I met a woman at work that complained that she didn`t have any good female friend although she was with a guy (not muslim). And she used to talk with me about that. At that time I didn`t get what she meant because I had  a lot of friends at that time. But know I understand what she meant.good friends

May Allah give each and every muslim or muslimah good friends that pray for their well-being and support them through thick or thin in their life, and may every muslim / muslimah prosper that much that Jannah will be their final resting place. I pray that we muslims don`t have friends that make them feel hopeless. Instead they have friends that make the feel hopeful. Ameen summa ameen.

hear what i am sayingShe will feel you are trying to understand her when..

-You listen and can repeat back what she says

-You don`t try to “fix her problems”, unless she specially asks for a solution.

-You try to identify her feelings

-You never dismiss her feelings, no matter how illogical they may seem to you

-You say: “I appreciate you sharing that with me”

-You don`t interrupt her when she`s trying to tell you how she feels

-You apologize and admit you were wrong

-You cut her some slack during her monthly cycle

-You see something that need to be done and you do it without a lot of hassle

-You express appreciaton for all she does: “honey, I could never do your job”

-You pray with her and for her

Extract taken out of the book “Love and respect” by Dr. Emerson Eggerich.

happinessYour wife feels you are open to her when..

-You share your feelings, telling about your day and difficulties

-You say, “let`s talk”, ask her what she`s feeling, and ask for her opinions

-Your face shows you want to talk – relaxed body language, good eye-contact

You take her for a walk to talk and reminisce about how you met or perhaps you talk about the kids and problems she may having with them

-You pray with her

-You give her your full attention.. no grunting responses while trying to watch tv, read the newspaper or write emails

-You discuss financial concerns, possible job changes, or ideas for the future

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!



(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)


(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
Ameen summa ameen

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