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What is the American dream? What is America today? What makes an American an American? Mostly people talk about becoming famous. Rich. Live a luxurious life. Have everything you can have that money can buy. As many cars as you need. Become rich in a few months and not work for the rest of the life. How many of those who have become popular because of an art they know, have become more humble? When we hear about the life of the rich and famous, people admire them. What a life they have. Everyone around them are so gorgeous. What happens to a life, when they no longer experience any difficulty? Everything is easy, they can buy what they want, at any time? No restrictions? Allah takes away the joy and satisfaction? A rapper once said, I have everything I desire, still I have no peace. Maybe he lost what he needed the most to achieve peace. The love of Allah, and being obedient to Him.

How Is Life In Norway

What is the Norwegian dream? Back to basics. People travel almost every other weekend to the mountains, away from the city, where they can find peace. Go skiing. Simple life in a cottage. They only bring with them the essentials. They connect with the quietness of nature and the peace surrounding them. Away from turmoil, cars and traffic signals. They find themselves through the quietness. The humbleness that is seen is very beautiful. Before the world became a global unity. Life was easier. Most people weren`t so much aware of the right clothes. They spent more time on being the right person. The increase of media, has resulted in people becoming so aware of fashion, that it has lost it`s value. Now, it`s more about what you’re wearing than who you are? Is it the right brand? Norway has also been affected by this. Many people are trying to find the american dream in Norway. But that`s not typical norwegian. There was a time, when the leaders also lived a very ordinary life. A very norwegian simple life. The fear of terrorism has changed how we live. Many important people doesn`t leave their home with out people who protect them.

Simplicity

When we compare these two types of national dreams, what is the conclusion? We find peace where we find simplicity. Where there is less noise. Connect with oneself, and family. Away from gadgets, tv etc. Talking. Connecting with each other without distractions. The characteristics of a typical norwegian has some matters in common with typical muslims values. Finding tranquility, connecting with Allah. See His Beauty. How beautiful He has made Norway. It`s not only the mountains and the sea`s. If we look at the bunad. It is different from city to city. One matter it has in common, it shows the femininity of a woman, while the same time, a modest dress. This is the heritage of Norway. If we look at what american woman wants to wear, they are starving their body to fit into a dress that shows much skin. The national dress of Norway, is very expensive. Teenager are often gifted it from the family in their teens.

Beauty In Re-Use

The new thing now, is to own the most newest thing. New phone, new car, new design, new fashion. If it’s old it’s out. Many american magazines are influencing their readers into becoming more materialistic. When the phone breaks, we buy another of the newest designs. Many Norwegians are very sensitive about the environment. Not even that, they find pride in wearing their grandparents clothes from their younger years. A family can often re-use clothes in many generations, before their worn out. And they proudly say it to their friends, and do not hide it. Many still doesn’t care more about newest fashion and design, than something from their family. Often many designs do come back after several years. They also often find proudness in buying second-hand, clothing and furniture. Many people have made it their hobby, to go to such places and try to find some real antiques. Often do they get a great bargain. The money sent to help people, and they find one of a kind of something real ancient an awesome. They care for the history behind the ancient stuff.

Take Care Of Their Health

With eating fast food and less exercise, it is easy to gain weight. The majority of American has come into this vicious circle, where they make a little effort to keep their health. In general Norwegians are very active people. They like to keep themselves fit by being active in summer and winter sports. Not only with their school, but also with family, friends and free time. It is a part of their culture. Taking part in outdoor activities. Spending time camping. 

Norwegian Support Good Causes

Often when there is any kind of people who need help. They eagerly take part in collecting donations. In demonstrations against oppression, there are more Norwegian participants, than the ethnicity of the people they are fighting for. They care, they listen. Often supportive of the weak, the oppressed. They spend many hours daily and weekly for voluntary work for the less fortunate. The refugees. Those who live on the street. Finding missing people. They want to help the community. Give back of the goodness, they have. Many are doing much remarkable efforts. It is not about money. They genuinely care for the weak. It’s very inspiring. Even with family, children, and many of the same chores of other muslims, they still manage to take out time for the betterment of the community. 

They Earn Their Money

They earn their living. Many take education, and work to attain a meaningful living. After retirement, many help as volunteers helping children with their school work. They don’t see work as burdening. Good work ethics. Being active. Utilizing their skills. 

Your Voice Is Heard

The democratic system. Their open debate. Often amazes me. People can voice their opinions. They often have open debate about matters around social security. The good news is, people are heard. The bad news can be, that people (countries, groups) can harm them through the info they get via media. 

Norwegian Muslim?

There is much beauty in the Norwegian heritage and culture. There is much goodness in calling ourself Norwegian muslims. Proud of where we live. Thankfulness. Gratitude. Muslims come from many backgrounds, many ethnicities, many colors. One matter they have in common is their deen. We can still be good muslims and good Norwegian citizen, at the same time.

Det er ikke bare kvinner som er opptatt av sitt utseende. Mange menn tror fortsatt at de må ha en perfekt kropp for å finne den riktige kvinnen i sitt liv. Menn blir målt utifra utseende. Det er derfor det ikke er rart om noen tyr til doping. Selv om de langsiktige negative virkningene ødelegger livene deres. 

Respekter Menn

Islam sier at man ikke skal objektifisere verken mann eller kvinne basert på deres utseende. Dersom man ønsker å få vite mer om andre, finn ut mer om deres karakter. Uansett hvor store muskler en mann har, eller kjekt utseende, så vil han ikke greie å forbli gift med sin kone om han har lite taqwa. Derfor er det viktig å jobbe for velvære og se og føle seg bra, men ikke bli sykelig opptatt av det. Til syvende og sist, vil et ektepar med god taqwa ha større sjanse for at ekteskapet varer livet ut, enn om de ser ut som modeller begge to. Ya Allah, hjelp oss å ikke basere våre meninger om andre basert på kvaliteter som utseende. Hjelp oss å forbedre våre indre kvaliteter for alltid. Og bruke riktige verdier som grunnlag når vi velger en ektefelle. Aamen 

😍 beautifying your hijab. Attracts attention.

🤤 shaping eyebrows. Still attracting attention. 

💋💅 using make-up to beautify yourself. Attracts attention.

😏😉 not lowering your gaze. 

🕌 using perfume, when you go outside, easily attract attention. 

👠using shoes that makes noise. Attracts  attention.

👚 using clothing that it is possible to see through. Clothed, yet naked. 

👂😋talking in a way that attracts attention. 

🐍 mixing with others without any limitations. 

🎼 🎸🎷 listening to music. The lyrics of songs invites to matters Islam forbid. 

🎬 watching movies. Bollywood. Hollywood. Drama. It changes your perspective and misguides you. 

⭐️ following actors/ actresses on social media. Spreading matters about them. 

These matters are general prohibitions in Islam. In general no one follows them.  

🤐 gossiping. Not control of the sins of your tongue.

🤞🤥lying about others. 

🤝 😈 making enmity between friends / spouses. 

😼 making oaths about false matters. 

🤧 convey yourself as a victim to gain support against others. 

😤☠️ using magic to get what you want in life. 

🙃 spreading false information about others. Questionable sources. 

😇 being un-trust-worthy because of false statements, testimony. 

🕸 using too much time to make friends of dunya, instead of friends of akhirah (hereafter). 

🐍 supporting wrong / mean people, instead of the oppressed. 

🥝 using too much time to beautify outside, instead of inside (values, conduct, character, integrity, niyah, ikhlas). 

🍄🐖 eating non-halal food. Or earning money in non-halal way. 

🕊😬 harming people who do good. 

👉 false accusations. Bohtan. 

People who are trying to follow the basics sunnah of Islam, are experiencing so much trouble within the ummah, because we have deviated from the right path. It is difficult to live a life as a practising muslim, when most muslim practice Islam progressively. Ya Allah, don’t let us deviate from the right path, after You have guided us, grant us from yourself mercy, indeed You are the most Merciful, and You are the bestower. Aameen 

Image of dolls with disabilities, ukEverywhere we are at home, school, work or outdoors, we see ads. Perfect people. People with physical beauty beyond what is normal. Most of us know how detrimental it is for most of us to strive for something that is not achievable. Everyone has got one part of their physical appearance they would want to beautify. For some people go to the extreme when it comes to this and take a drastic attempt by taking a plastic operation. Some people meet many people who behave rudely towards them. Mostly it is because they are different. A difference that makes them stand out in the crowd. Many outsiders think that the only way they can find acceptance in this society is if they have a perfect body. Good conduct/character are impressions that last. Not mere the looks. Good looks might get you married to a beautiful Muslimah. Only your character, conduct would decide whether you`ll keep her for the rest of the life. The same goes for any job application or an election.

Toy  like me, would you still like us Would You Have Bought Me?

An organization in UK has wanted to make sure that children with disabilities also can see that perfect is not the goal. They have made dolls with disabilities for children who are different. This is beautiful. Makes it easier for the child to accept himself for who he /she is. It is very important that children are encouraged to be who they are, instead of trying to become like everyone else and lose themselves in the attempt. They are already one in a 7,4 billion people worlds population. Why do they feel a need to be like everyone else, when there is only one of them. They are unique. Their different-ness should be valued and treasured. Allah has a perfect plan in how He wants his worshippers to be. He does not make mistakes. May Allah help us create a community where everyone are accepted like they are. Aameen.

  I’m an extremely sensitive and intense person. That’s what makes me so creepingly extreme. Though I don’t like all extremes. But some extremes are actually worth sharing. Like being extremely happy. But that won’t last until we are extremely grateful and extremely content with our life. We can only achieve an extremely content life by being extremely good to ourselves and all other extremely goodnatured people around the world.  In case I might find other likeminded people with such extreme thoughts as me. 

I love and adore extremely beautiful people. Those that have the extremely nice attitude that brings out extreme joy in an ever so extremely dark day. The ones that share smiles to the extreme, without making you feel bad about smiling back. The extremely including people, that talks with the outcasts, that sometimes feel extremely lonely. These extreme lovelies, knows how to be extremely joyous and give extremely good advice when needed. Most of them have this special extremely awsome sixth sence, that know when to talk and when to leave alone. These extremely beauties can be found everywhere in the world. And they help you forget your extreme problems, or they have such extreme good points on how to decrease the extreme world poverty or other issues, that our problems seems so extremely small, after their extremely intelligent and well-thought and extremely good Judgement for solutions. Some of them have such an extremely good behaviour, that they are only one sentence away from attaining the extreme felicity in Paradise.  If they would accept the extremely beautiful Islam, they would understand, that they are living the extreme beautiful life of Muslims without being muslims. By saying one extremely awsome sentence, they will understand, that they’re extreme beautiful behaviour is as extremely good as the behaviour of the most extremely beautiful man on earth (pbuh), that had the most extremely good manners, conduct and character that any extremely beautiful person can easily follow to the extreme. How is it possible that they are following his (pbuh) extremely beautiful quotes and actions without knowing them or knowing him (pbuh). That makes me extremely sad. May Allah help these extremely beauties and lovelies understand how extremely beautiful they are, inside out. Not because of their appearance. But because of their love to the extreme goodnatured mentality and behaviour that the world needs more of. Thanks to you extremes, we have understood, why it is not a bad thing to be intense. May Allah guide you to accept the most extremely truthful message for mankind: Islam. The extreme religion where extremely peaceful people, enjoy the fact that other people live in an extremely peaceful environment together. No matter what belief, color, gender, or culture they have. They are extremely happy when other people are also extremely happy. They are of the extreme joy-sharers. May Allah help us understand the extreme goodness of Islam and it’s extremely beautiful message. Thank you for helping me understand, that being extreme is not a bad thing. It can actually be a good thing. Thanks for decreasing the stigma of the word “extreme”. You guys and gals are extremely Ok people. 🙂 I am not going to say sorry for being extremely lovable muslimah again. I have realized through this extremely honest post that it is not a bad characteristic to be extremely good.  🙂 God Bless you 🙂 

Prophets characterBarn og hijab. Jeg forstår at dette er et temaet som opptar flere om dagen, pga forslag om hijab-forbudet til Hadija Tajik. Jeg er ikke enig i at hijab forbys. Verken for barn eller voksne. Likevel synes jeg det er et viktig tema og det må diskuteres. Hijab oppfattes av de fleste nordmenn at håret tildekkes med et sjal. Men det er ikke kjernen i det å ha hijab. Hijab er mer enn det.

Haram-politi Hjelper Ikke

Jeg forstår at voksne muslimske foreldre er bekymret for sin barns Islamske identitet idag. De fleste foreldre ønsker det beste for sine barn. Og alhamdolillah, hvorfor skulle de ikke det? Noen tenker kanskje at dersom barnet begynner med hijab i tidlig alder, vil det være så vant til tanken, slik at når barnet kommer i tenårene, vil det komme naturlig og vedkommende vil fortsette med å bære hijab. Det som er dumt er at det kan gå begge veier. Islam er ikke en forbuds-religion. Men det blir oppfattet som det, pga vi nevner forbudene mer enn vi nevner skjønnheten i det som er tillatt. Vi forklarer ikke grunnen bak det som er tillatt og det som ikke er tillatt på en slik forståelig måte og enkel måte. Det at vi har et uoffisielt haram-politi, hjelper heller ikke.

Han Er Min Veiviser fvmh

Dersom vi vil at våre barn skal lære seg hvorfor islam er så vakkert og hvorfor vi elsker det, må vi lære oss å begrunne svarene våre. Vi må forklare årsaken til at noe er tillatt / ikke tillatt og hele bakgrunn-historikken. Ellers kan ting som tas ut av kontekst, bli noe helt annet enn det som er ment med ordene. Siden vi ønsker at andre medmennesker og familie-medlemmer skal forstå hvorfor vi er tilhengere av en så vakker religion, må vi bli flinkere til å forklare. Ikke minst bør, in sha Allah, vår egen karaktèr gjenspeile seg i det vi sier. Dersom vi sier at islam lærer at man ikke skal lyve, og vi lyver selv, vil ikke andre forstå oss. Vi vil bli sett på som hyklerske. Men ikke om vi tar frem forklaringen at ved noen forhold, er det faktisk tillatt å lyve, selv i Islam. Som for eksempel, når profeten fred være med han gjorde hijrah fra Mekka til Medina. Spurte noen på veien, hans følgesvenn Abu Bakr Siddiq måtte Allah være fornøyd med han, om hvem dette mennesket er. Abu Bakr Siddiq raa svarte: ” min veiviser “. Han visste at dersom de hadde funnet ut av om at han er en profet, så ønsket de ikke han godt. For at de skulle komme seg trygt fram, var de nødt for å snakke metaforisk. Det var ikke usant. Profeten, fred være med han, har vist oss veien til Islam.

Hijab Gjelder For Begge Kjønn

På samme måte, når vi snakker om hijab, handler det ikke bare om å dekke seg til. Hijab er også hvordan man oppfører seg, snakker, går og holdningen. Det er å vise beskjedenhet i alt dette, for at man ikke skal trekke til seg oppmerksomhet fra det andre kjønn. Det gjelder vel så mye gutter som for jenter. Problemet er at vi fokuserer for mye på jentene, siden de kan være tiltrekkende. Det er viktig at både jenter og gutter får forståelse av at begge kan være en prøvelse for hverandre. For at dette skal unngås, er det lurt at visse hensyn blir tatt. Dersom ungdommene ikke tar disse hensynene, kan det oppstå problemer. Det er viktig at vi snakker om konsekvensene, men samtidig henviser til hvor stor lykke de vil få om de følger dette. Ikke bare her i verden men også i det evigvarende livet, etter døden.

Den Reelle Skjønnheten Til Islam Er Profetens Seerah

Dersom barn i en ung alder opplever islam som en forbuds-religion pga deres strenge oppdragelse, kan det resultere at vi mister de fra religionen når det er voksne. Det er viktig at vi er åpenhjertige og ikke tvinger noen i religion. Men bruker diskusjon med begrunnende svar for å forklare hvorfor islam er bra. Det er viktig at vi hjelper barn med å få gode venner som er bra for dem. At de støttes og at de ikke er redde for å komme til oss for å snakke om noe som opptar de. En feil venn, kan gjøre mye skade. Vi kan ikke endre andres tankegang med å si at sånn er det bare. Vi må finne eksempler som er vise og forklare hvorfor det er viktig for oss. The beauty. Vi må hjelpe andre å forstå, det kan vi bare gjøre ved å forklare mer og mer.

Profeten fvmh Liv Har Smeltet Våre Hjerter

Jeg synes ikke det er viktig at barn bruker hijab før de er tenåringer. Men det som jeg synes er viktig er at barn får en god oppdragelse hvor foreldre er flinke med å cultivate the value and beauty of Islam, not only by preaching, but by practice. Siden barn er veldig smarte. De gjør ikke alltid det vi sier, men de vil gjøre det de ser at vi gjør. Dersom vi er sannferdige innenfra og ut, vil dette gjenspeile seg i dem. En troende er som et speil for en annen troende, når vedkommende ser noe dumt, sier han ifra. Og når de ser noe bra, setter de pris på det. Ris og ros. Vi må bli flinkere til å forklare for ikke-muslimer ikke bare hvorfor vi er enige i forbudene, men fokusere på at vi er enige i det som er tillatt, og hvorfor det er så vakkert. Vi må bli flinkere til å vise hvorfor vår profets fvmh perfekte handlinger / sunnah og hvorfor denne religionen er så vakker gjennom å følge de selv, og hvorfor vi elsker de mer enn noe annet på denne jord. Når vi muslimer, vil greie å vise alle de gode sidene ved det som er tillatt, vil også oppslutningen om vår religion øke. Vi er ikke interessert i å tvinge noen. Vi tror på at det er kun Allah som veileder. Men om vi følger den vakre seerah av profeten fvmh, vil vår vakre oppførsel, smelte hjerter. Akkurat slik som profeten fvmd, har smeltet våre hjerter. Og flere mennesker vil forstå hvorfor vår religion er perfekt, og de vil komme i grupper og akseptere den eneste og sanne religion. Måtte Allah gjøre det enkelt for oss. Aameen.

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!

USE YOUR OWN VOICE TO RAISE YOUR OPINION!

Nasiyat..

(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)

:) W & R one 2 one :)

(",) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (",)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
InshaAllah
Ameen summa ameen

Når du er forent med en
du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
Inderlighet. God
giverglede skaper
kjærlighet:)

Mood :)

Overjoyous :) I wonder which song is always on my mind (",)

(“,) Always on my mind (“,)

Be mine all the time,
never cross the line,
I`m a one man woman,
I don`t share
what`s mine,
never settle for less..

Song of the moment :)

:) If you just love me, i will let you see, how more you need? :)

:) Discover enlightenment
holding your hand.. :)