Why children need to avoid speaking with strangers

Once when I was a child. About 11 years. There werent any Mosque nearby. So me and my brother had to spend our summer holiday to learn to read quran. The distance to the Mosque was about 1 hour each way. And we had to go to the nearest town. I remember once when we… Continue reading Why children need to avoid speaking with strangers

Garlic and onions again?

We often speak about parents wanting the best for their children. But is this really the truth? Several times have we heard about incidents where parents forcefully marry their children without their consent. But according to islamic law, marriage is not valid without consent. We have also had incidents in norway where parents make food… Continue reading Garlic and onions again?

Why is this program named “everybody loves Raymond”

Child asks mother: «why is this seerial named «everybody loves raymond?»Mother sighs and replies : «because he was not able to say «no» to others. This is the reason why parents have the responsebility to teach self-respect to their children. Both boys and girls. Someday they will grow into adults and have their own family.… Continue reading Why is this program named “everybody loves Raymond”

I Get Scared. I Have Daughters / Sons

We know that many muslim families in the west, help their children start wearing hijab from primary school. Many non-muslim disagree about this practice. Even politicians have spoken against it, and want the authorities to ban hijab from school. Hijab is fardh, obligatory, from puberty, in Islam. The years before puberty it is optional for… Continue reading I Get Scared. I Have Daughters / Sons

Achievements Without Allah Is Failures

When we learn something from our teacher. He (she) lights a torch of knowledge (wisdom) in us. The love for remembering Allah increases. Now it's upto us, to take care of it, help it grow and to pass it on to others, and invite them to the mehfil. The love of Allah, is such, that… Continue reading Achievements Without Allah Is Failures

Awareness Of Our Boundaries

In the first years of our school, we learned about limits of interaction with other children. Our teacher told us that every child has an invisible boundary around us. Every child has different people who are allowed to cross that boundary. Since every child is different, and some children are more shy than others, some… Continue reading Awareness Of Our Boundaries