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Allah didn’t say : Men are not allowed to oppress. Or. Women are not allowed to oppress. He said. Don’t oppress another muslim. As an oppressor can be from both genders. 

There are different types of oppression between the genders. When men are oppressed, they shy away from speaking up or getting help. Most men thinks it’s embarrassing to be known as the weak. Especially if the oppressor is a woman. Because of the crying, people often think that women is not at fault. Overlooking the fact that many women are good at manipulation. Getting their way from sobbing and crying. Instead of understanding the situation, most people automatically judge the man as the oppressor. Often times oppression can be so hidden, that only few understand it’s reality. 

Oppression is not allowed in Islam. The supplication of the oppressed is always accepted by Allah. Hazoor Paak ‎ﷺ has said, protect muslims from being an oppressor, and protect muslims when they are oppressed. 

characterIt is quite common these days, that people are attracted to others whom has a beautiful appearance. I guess a lot of young people get confused about what real beauty is. Generations get influenced by the media, the commercials, movies, tv-serials, where people with perfect body`s are picturing a scenario that is no-where close to reality. Women with tons of make-up and thin as they have never eaten showing a life where you will be happy if you get the man you have fall in love with. Their fairytale stops when they get married, not giving an accurate picture of life after marriage. This is not true love, and this is not real beauty.

Our Prophet Muhammad pbuh, has shown us what real beauty is, through his pbuh soul, conduct and character. He had such a genuine care for people, and was such a humble person with strong bashfulness, that people couldn`t help themselves from loving him pbuh. He pbuh lived a simple life, and treated people so kindly that even his enemies accepted his pbuh message. He was of course beautiful also, but it was his character and simplicity people fell in love with, and still admire and adore. His pbuh kindness to animals. His pbuh treatment of elders. His pbuh nature of reconciliations, of forgiving even the people whom had hurt his pbuh dearest ones. Even people whom wheren`t on his pbuh religion, admired him and still do, for such and amazing character he pbuh has. He pbuh has shown us that is possible to live the Quran. It is through his manners and genuineness that he has won so many hearts ❤ Subhan Allah.

I can understand that young people fall in love with appearance. Though the wiser and elder they get, the more they realize that real beauty is the conduct, not the outside, but the inside. After you marry a person, it is the character you are going to live with for the rest of your life. If the same attractive person has a less good conduct, than imagine yourself whether you are going to live a harmonious life or not.

After all what are you attracted to? Kindness? Manners? Morals? I think that people whom are genuinely kind and treat their loved ones fairly and with respect even when no one is watching them, them being younger or elder, than that is beautiful. People whom follow the sunnah and aren`t embarrassed to go out with their parents, that is beautiful. Being nice to children, even when it won`t give you any personal advantage, but just because that is how our Prophet pbuh was, or it is the right thing to do, that is beautiful. It is very important that we understand what real beauty is, before we get into the bond of marriage. If beauty is our body, what about those people whom has died. We are not our body, we are our soul. The believing and righteous souls will live an eternal life in Paradise. May Allah make us of those and increase the beauty of our souls, so that we are reunited in Jannah with the people we love for the sake of Allah. Ameen summa ameen.

kameraNå tenker jeg på alle de journalistene vi har verden. Journalistikk er en veldig artig jobb, siden de kommer veldig tett innpå de menneskene de skal fortelle om i reportasjene sin, eller artikkelen sin. Samtidig har de masse kunnskap om små og store ting, og kan skrive om alt som rører seg i sitt eget land og resten av verden. Men man skal ikke glemme at disse menneskene har som andre mennesker også meninger om ting. De tenker og oppfører seg på sin måte utifra det de har tillært seg eller opplevd gjennom sitt liv. Det er nettopp derfor vi som leser deres budskap eller ser på tv må bli flinkere til å se med litt mer kritske øyne. Alt som blir sagt ordrett gjenspeiler seg ikke alltid i virkeligheten. Noen ganger kan små saker bli blusset opp til et stort fenomen, mens kanskje andre viktige saker ikke kommer frem siden det krasjer med meningene til journalistene. Det er jo sant. Og vi alle vet jo det. Men vi lukker øynene litt, kanskje. Alle og ethvert individ burde faktisk tenke over dette og ikke la all info som siger gjennom reportasjer og artikler komme inn over seg, før en selv har nok informasjon rundt emnet det skrives eller snakkes om.

” With great power comes great responsibility”.

Kanskje dette er noe journalister bør bli flinkere til å leve etter. Å skrive om det som faktisk skjer i verden, enn å dreie vinkelen på en slik måte at ting blir tatt

“way out of their proportion”.

Jeg sier ikke at alle gjør slik. Men må si at jeg er blitt mer obs på det etter å ha fått med meg artikler fra journalister som er meget kunnskapsrike og som får frem bildet av virkeligheten, uten å skjule noe og uten å henge ut noen.

Er det slik at journalister ikke vil skrive om virkeligheten, siden det ikke selger eller skaper oppmerksomhet? Hvilken verden har vi kommet i når løgn selger mer enn sannhet. Det er utrolig synd at vi har fått en slik verden. Og at noen mennesker misbruker den makten de har. Dette skjer blant folk i mediebransjen mer enn før.

Det er klart at det rører seg noe inni folk når man snakker sant. Kanskje fordi den ikke alltid er sukkersøt, men kan være ganske deprimerende, men det betyr ikke at vi skal lukke øynene våre for den. Eller at mennesker generelt skal bli servert med løgner, for å holde dem oppe. Moderasjon kreves, si det med måte, men snakk for all del utifra sannheten uten å ha et ønske om å lage overskrifter.

“Show the real picture and try to be like the truthful one”

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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June 2018
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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!



(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)


(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
Ameen summa ameen

Når du er forent med en
du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
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Mood :)