The basic of a good relationship is after my opinion, trust, faithfulness, care, respect (self respect), the same values, the same goals in life, being truthful towards each other. Lacking any of these points can be crucial to the relationship. If the couple doesn’t have the same outlook on life it can cause lots of issues after marriage.
What do YOU think are the basics of a good and lasting relationship?
Roshnii179 
I belive that a good relationship can be build om several things. But there are, however, some basic factors that make a relationship works. I am not at relationship expert, but I can look at my own experience and evaluate.
First, there must be, off course a chemistry. Two different persons have to have some things that attracts each other. Second, is trust, respect and faithfulness. Those are some of the main values that, according to my opinion, are basic for a relationship to work. However to gave a GOOD relationship, there are more factors that have to be added. I think those factors can be different from relationship to relationship. In my relationship, HUMOR means a whole lot. To be able to laugh together, but also use humor as a therapy is important, i think. We can talk about everything, but also laugh about everything =)
“Through humor, you can soften some of the worst blows that life delivers. And once you find laughter, no matter how painful your situation might be, you can survive it.” Bill Cosby
“Humor is a rubber sword – it allows you to make a point without drawing blood” Mary Hirsch
Wonderful 🙂 Thx for your comment 🙂