Your wife feels close to you when..
-You hold her hand
-You hug her
-You are affectionate without sexual intention
-You are with her alone so you can focus on each other and laugh together
-You go for a walk or jog.. anything that results in togetherness
-You seek her out.. Set up a date night.. eat by candlelight
-You go out of your way to do something for her, like run an errand
-You make it a priority to spend time with her
-You are aware of her as a person with mind and opinions. Let her know you enjoy discussing things with her and getting her insights.
-You suggest the unexpected.. get takeout and eat on the beach.. take a walk to see the full moon..
-You pillow talk after making love
Taken out of the book “Love and respect” Dr Emerson Eggerichs.