Priority is a choice

Parents can easily hire a tutor for their child, when he/she is weak in a subject. Despite the fact that the subject is un-important, nor will it be usable after a few years. Their goal is of course to help their children with education so they can live a good life. Yet will the same… Continue reading Priority is a choice

The Importance of Being Vulnerable with Your Spouse

How Openness Builds a Stronger Connection and Love In today’s world, we are often taught to be strong and protect ourselves. We learn to hide our fears and struggles to look tough and independent. But when it comes to having a deep and meaningful relationship with your spouse, being vulnerable is actually a sign of… Continue reading The Importance of Being Vulnerable with Your Spouse

Either by speech, clothing or body language

Unmarried people have to make an effort in behaving in a certain manner to get intercourse. Either by speech, clothing or body language. This is very common for students. And their parties. But have you ever thought about, how boring life it must be, to always do a provocative action to the opposite gender, to… Continue reading Either by speech, clothing or body language

Garlic and onions again?

We often speak about parents wanting the best for their children. But is this really the truth? Several times have we heard about incidents where parents forcefully marry their children without their consent. But according to islamic law, marriage is not valid without consent. We have also had incidents in norway where parents make food… Continue reading Garlic and onions again?

Tame Desires With Taqwa

The recipe for a good life and marriage is taqwa. Desires does not go away by marriage. Marriage give permission (halal way) for intimacy. The fitnah in the world will still be there. Desires need to be tamed by increasing godconsciousness (taqwa). If both husband and wife work together to attain and maintain a sound… Continue reading Tame Desires With Taqwa

Create Distance Or Increase Love? 

When we say or do something hurtful to our spouse, it creates a distance between you two.  For example Lying - 5 meters Harshness - 7 meters Unloyalty - 10 meters Unfaithfulness - 100 meters When we are good to our spouse and do deeds and actions that makes your spouse feel "respected", "loved" etc,… Continue reading Create Distance Or Increase Love?