An unspoken Asian problem in Norway

Men who are brought from Asia to Norway in marriage with an asian women who is half Norwegian can experience pressure. The women has to take the role as the provider until the husband manages the norwegian language and a job. He has to start at scratch building a network of friends and social network.… Continue reading An unspoken Asian problem in Norway

Speaking your husbands love language

Allah has given us many gifts. One of those gifts is our health. And to keep a good health it is important that we exercise regularly. Often times what husbands find appealing of their wife is that she is in good shape. So when a wife exercises she is speaking to her husband that she… Continue reading Speaking your husbands love language

Increase of male populations

Islam made Polygami the solution for women because of many battles, where the increase of widows who needed a care-taker. But look at the society today. In China and in India there are more men than women. The result is that it is tougher competition between the males to find a spouse and keep her.… Continue reading Increase of male populations

One great blessing of paradise

One great blessing of paradise is that no-one has to strive to keep their husbands attention, after they have reached jannah. As a wife has to do in dunya. The spouses will be pure. And Allah has made paradise without any kind of sin. So the married couples will live an eternity of fidelity. Only… Continue reading One great blessing of paradise

For 5 minutes of pleasure between a male and a female

For 5 minutes of pleasure a male and a female create a human who will live 80 - 90 years (giennomsnittsalder). Who has to live a life maybe without one parent. Probably in poor condition. This disagreement could also happen to married couples. Where the mother says she is using the pill. The father doesn't… Continue reading For 5 minutes of pleasure between a male and a female

While attending a gathering where winning dowry was the price

Once I went to a gathering where they asked me to have a speech for them. Many women and daughters were gathered. They had a lottery. The prize was that they would pay an amount for 5 daughters dowry. When I held the speech, I said, that it is very heartbreaking to have such an… Continue reading While attending a gathering where winning dowry was the price