Parents can easily hire a tutor for their child, when he/she is weak in a subject. Despite the fact that the subject is un-important, nor will it be usable after a few years. Their goal is of course to help their children with education so they can live a good life. Yet will the same parents spend the same time or money on themselves learning the skill of how to be a good spouse in their marriage. They want their marriage to last a lifetime. How will they proactively make sure they will achieve this?
Money is not only what you earn, it is also how you prioritize. Sometimes what you prefer instead of another thing, can give you a better quality in your days. Many speak about limited resources. The truth is they have different goals in life. Those goals define where they are heading.
If you break a phone, will you repair it or will you buy a new? Many people might not think twice and buy another instead. What about relationship? If you are struggling ? Will you think the solution is to find another spouse or to repair the differences? The love languages by Gary Chapman can help. Though I believe that with a marriage coach, it will be easier to solve the problems and live a healthier marriage. People can spend thousands on their home, car and insurance, but when it comes to their marriage, they cant afford a coach. If we believe that a course in english or norwegian can help us speak fluent. Why do we not have faith in the fact that a coach can help us have a more loving marriage.
The divorce rate is as it is. What you want you can make an effort to achieve. It all depends on yourself. Its never easier with another person. You will still have to work on your habits. Make a good choice for your life : Seek marriage advice from a coach if your struggling. Life can be a blessing when we make choices that help us live in quality. Have a good week. Remember me in duas barak Allahu feekum.
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