Interaction Of Opposite Genders

If your husband has female "friends", you will have problems in your marriage.  If your wife has male "friends" you will have problems in your life. There is no need to socialize more than necessary with the opposite gender. It will lead to fitnah. No one is immune to fitnah, no matter how many masters… Continue reading Interaction Of Opposite Genders

Compatibility Is Everything

If age is no guarantee for maturity, why does people give it so much presedence, when choosing a spouse. Compatibility is everything. How can any parent choose a non-practising spouse for their practising son/daughter. This is oppression. May Allah make it easy for all un-married people to find a spouse who is compatible with them… Continue reading Compatibility Is Everything

Toys Like Me -Would You Still Like Us

Everywhere we are at home, school, work or outdoors, we see ads. Perfect people. People with physical beauty beyond what is normal. Most of us know how detrimental it is for most of us to strive for something that is not achievable. Everyone has got one part of their physical appearance they would want to… Continue reading Toys Like Me -Would You Still Like Us

The Norm Is That Ab-Normal Has Become Normal

In some countries eating with your hands is seen as something good and normal. In other societies it is seen as abnormal to eat without cutlery. Societies and countries have made their written and un-written rules about what they see as normal. Something that is common in some societies is seen as backwards or illegal… Continue reading The Norm Is That Ab-Normal Has Become Normal

Preserving Image Has Become More Important Than Following Islam

It is good to see that the community has seen the value of educating people before they get married to make sure that they are familiar to their responsibilities and their rights. Alhamdolillah. That is a great start. I feel that we need dig a bit deeper into the issue of marriage. To get a… Continue reading Preserving Image Has Become More Important Than Following Islam

When Seeking Advice

Often in life we come to a road that leads to two different places. We don`t know which one to choose. The decision is tough and we are not always familiar with all the pros and cons. That is when we seek advice from people whom has more wisdom and knowledge than us. Someone whom… Continue reading When Seeking Advice