I Get Scared. I Have Daughters / Sons

We know that many muslim families in the west, help their children start wearing hijab from primary school. Many non-muslim disagree about this practice. Even politicians have spoken against it, and want the authorities to ban hijab from school. Hijab is fardh, obligatory, from puberty, in Islam. The years before puberty it is optional for… Continue reading I Get Scared. I Have Daughters / Sons

Rare Gems Who Believed In Us

At work. As doctors, advocates, engineers. We are often very proud of ourselves when we attain some kind of position in society. People who achieve some kind of business or work, with a big salary didn`t come to that point themselves. They probably had many people backing them up. First of all their parents, their… Continue reading Rare Gems Who Believed In Us

“Upper Hand” In Marriage

It's very interesting how elders, aunties and uncles are. When it comes to their son, they want their son to have the "upper hand" in the marriage, always. When it comes to their daughter, they want their daughter to have the "upper hand" in the marriage. The elders want their own children to decide. Most… Continue reading “Upper Hand” In Marriage

Awareness Of Our Boundaries

In the first years of our school, we learned about limits of interaction with other children. Our teacher told us that every child has an invisible boundary around us. Every child has different people who are allowed to cross that boundary. Since every child is different, and some children are more shy than others, some… Continue reading Awareness Of Our Boundaries

Don’t Let Anyone Walkover You

An attachment can be positive and it can be negative. Like a child is attached to his parents until he is independent. This is a natural attachment that we must go through. Like a nest. The baby birds learn to fly from their parents, and one day they leave their parents nest.  The tricky part… Continue reading Don’t Let Anyone Walkover You

Is A Child More Intelligent?

It is somewhat tragical funny that sometimes people laugh of adults who behave childish. A dai once said: if you ask 10 women with the same clothing to sit the same place, and ask a 2-year-old who his/her mother is, the child will find her. We know how much a child loves his mother. His/her… Continue reading Is A Child More Intelligent?