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Loyalty is very important in every relation, be it husband and wife, family or others. One person who is not loyal to his/her beloved can`t be any marriage-material at all after my opinion. Loyalty is one of the foundations in a relationship. Like for instance if someone say something bad about your beloved, you back your beloved against that person. If you instead back up the “enemy”, how do you think your beloved would feel in such a circumstance. Not that loved, I would dare to say.
Or something like making fun of others. For one, I would like to say is that someone whom deliberately makes fun of others will have a lot of explaining to do to Allah on judgement day, for all the people he/she hurt. Another if someone makes fun of his/her loved ones in front of other, he/she is being rude and disrespectful and that should not be tolerated. For instance, We Muslims alhamdolillah love our Prophet (pbuh), so when someone makes fun of him making any cartoons just for fun, that is not ok with us. Most of us would want to protest against that and in some countries flags are burned, but mostly protests are held around the world. If you cannot be loyal you would have a difficulty being in relationship for a long time. So we should be careful how we interact with people. And we shouldn`t let our loved ones down. That can be terrible for the relation be it with anyone.
It could be that your loved ones are jealous of you, or that you have done something to hurt that person, so now he /she is taking back. In a civilized community I hope this wouldn`t happen, because they rather talk out their differences instead of any malicious act. Our Prophet (pbuh) would never ever approve of this and dislike it the most, as the character (subhanAllah) he has.
I`m not sure about the amount of arranged marriages or love marriages. Though I think it is very important that the two people who are getting married should be given the opportunity to find out if they have the same goals in life. They should not only get married because their parents say that this person is going to be a good match for you but they should also be given the chance to have a talk with that person and find out if they have the same ground values, or same way they want to live their life. For instance if one has the goal as to live beautifully in this world and have a great mansion and lots of money and the other person wants to strive to become a better muslim for a better hereafter and is striving for a better life after death when one will be accountable for our deeds, than I would say that their goals are differing them from each other so they should not even think of getting married. Those who`m have the same goals will together head for the trip of life 
two passengers :hubby and wifey: on the same journey being each others pillar of strength to what they want to achieve and Inshallah they will achieve it. If they only put their mind to it, nothing is impossible
May Allah give us all guidance so that we can become a better person and not let us neglect the duties our deen has put upon us. Ameen sum ameen.
