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let me show you something that is better for youThe upbringing of girls and boys cannot be alike. I still see a lot of mistakes parents are guilty of, in raising their children. One of the most noticable one is teaching them respect.

Even though times have changed but the mindset that is taught to boys hasn`t changed. The majority of boys and even men these days think to be nothing wrong in behaving rudely to other girls they aren`t related to. They wouldn`t tolerate the same for their own sisters. If parents and especially the father has a solid muslim upbringing, he would try to teach the same values to his son. The main thing here is that every young son should be taught to respect women regardless of how they are dressed, how they behave and who they are with. Often muslim brothers doesn`t find anything wrong in insulting another girl because of her appearance and the other points mentioned before. The majority of muslims living in the West are educated to a certain degree, but they lack such manners that would weigh heavier on their scale on Judgment Day. We have no right to look down on other people no matter what state they are in. Maybe they some time would become more guided than us.  It is a matter of guidance and that is not in our hands. Backbiting or insulting them would not better the situation. Though one thing is for sure, if we don`t apologize to them in our life, we are going to lose in the Hereafter when our good deeds will be given to them till they forgive us, IF they forgive us, or else we will have to bear their bad deeds.

If you have made such a mistake, repent and make amends, apologize if possible or at least pray this dua :

In Arabic:

“Allahumma fa`ayyuma mu`minin sababtuhu faj`al thaalika lahu qurbatan ilayka yawmal-qiyaamati”.

Translation:

“O Allah, whomever of the believers i have abused, give him the reward of a sacrificial slaughter for it on the Day of Resurrection”.

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May Allah give us good manners. Ameen.

an ideaEvery change starts with one person having an idea. He shares the idea with likeminded people, they develop it into something amazing and make a change. Either if it is in their personal, proffessional or business life, that is what it takes. One person whom believes in himself and loved ones that believes in his ideas, determination to give it all he`s got.

 

Believe in yourself

We have to believe in the fact that one person can make a change. If he starts with himself and with the help of Allah what is it that a person can`t do? People who accomplishes great business or somewhat success in work or personal life are those that are stubborn enough to not let any setback let them give up. They try a different approach every time they fall, which brings them one step nearer to their goal.

 

Experience comes from making mistakes

We learn by experience from making mistakes and that experience over time develops into wisdom. When we have somewhat wisdom, we know how to handle a situation and are better equipped to handle the circumstances in our life no matter how difficult they may seem. That is why we shouldn`t curse the fall or the setback, because it can actually be the reason why we succeed in something later in life.

 

Believe in your ideas

Yes we have to believe in our ideas, but at the same time, don`t start flying whenever you come up with something new. Sometimes it is quite important to do the necessary research if some other person is already working on a improwed version of what you came up with. It`s important that we calculate whether we have competition and the chances for us to succeed instead of them.

 

The world may not be ready for it

Another thing is that we can have a great idea which in itself can be brilliant for a great group of people. But maybe those people aren`t ready to accept it yet. Like we all have heard about a lot of people who where not succesful in their lifetime. Though after their death, their ideas were apppreciated and people further developed them into something amazing and they become known for it.

 

Hard work pays off

Nothing comes easy in life. We have to work hard to succeed. There is no shortcut to success, everyone has to take the stairs, one step at a time. As long as we don`t let setbacks decrease our determination and work hard for what we believe in, there is a big chance for success. Though we should also know that people whom are succesful are also envied by others whom aren`t as blessed as them. So we should try to not share all our victories with everyone. There might be someone there whom would love to do anything to be in our place. Make supplication and believe that Allah is the only One whom can make it easy for you. May Allah help and bless everyone. Ameen summa ameen.

black and white horsesThose who answered the call of the Messenger, performed the prayer and made ablution as commanded by their Prophet will be addressed as Al-Ghurrul-Muhajjalun on the Day of Resurrection.

Abu Hurayra raa narrated that the Messenger of Allah pbuh said: “On the Day of Resurrection, my followers will be called Al-Ghurrul-Muhajjalun from the trace of ablution”.

Ghurr in arabic means the bright radiance that is on the forehead of a horse. It is used here to represent beauty and fame. In this hadith, it means the light that will radiate on the face of the followers of Muhammad pbuh.

Muhajjal means the whiteness that is on the feet of a horse. The two words are meant to indicate light that will illuminate from their faces and limbs. May Allah include us amongst them. Ameen summa ameen.

The Messenger of Allah pbuh went to the (Baqi`) cemetery and said, “May you be secured from punishment, O dwellers of abode of the believers! We, if Allah wills, will follow you. I wish we see my brothers.” The Companions said, “O Messenger of Allah! Are not we your brothers?” He pbuh said, “You are my Companions, but my brothers are those who have not come into the world yet.” They said; “O Messenger of Allah! How will you recognize those of your Ummah who are not born yet?” He pbuh said, “Say, if a man has white-footed horses with white foreheads among horses which are pure black, will he not recognize his own horses?” They said; “Certainly, O Messenger of Allah!” He pbuh said, “They (my followers) will come with bright faces and white limbs because of wudu ; and I will arrive at the Hawd (Al-Kauthar) ahead of them.” Muslim

-Encyclopedia of Islamic Jurisprudence- Darussalam, Muslim Matters.

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!

USE YOUR OWN VOICE TO RAISE YOUR OPINION!

Nasiyat..

(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)

Poetry

(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
InshaAllah
Ameen summa ameen

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