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respectYour wife will feel esteemed when..

-You say, “I`m so proud of the way you handled that”

-You speak highly of her in front of others

-You open the door for her

-You try something new with her

-You give her encouragement or praise with kindness and enthusiasm

-You notice something different about her hair or clothes

-You are physically affectionate with her in public

-You teach the children to show her and others respect

-You value her opinion in the gray areas as not wrong but just different – and valid

-You choose family outings over “guy things”

-You make her feel first in importance

-You are proud of her and all she does

hear what i am sayingShe will feel you are trying to understand her when..

-You listen and can repeat back what she says

-You don`t try to “fix her problems”, unless she specially asks for a solution.

-You try to identify her feelings

-You never dismiss her feelings, no matter how illogical they may seem to you

-You say: “I appreciate you sharing that with me”

-You don`t interrupt her when she`s trying to tell you how she feels

-You apologize and admit you were wrong

-You cut her some slack during her monthly cycle

-You see something that need to be done and you do it without a lot of hassle

-You express appreciaton for all she does: “honey, I could never do your job”

-You pray with her and for her

Extract taken out of the book “Love and respect” by Dr. Emerson Eggerich.

happinessYour wife feels you are open to her when..

-You share your feelings, telling about your day and difficulties

-You say, “let`s talk”, ask her what she`s feeling, and ask for her opinions

-Your face shows you want to talk – relaxed body language, good eye-contact

You take her for a walk to talk and reminisce about how you met or perhaps you talk about the kids and problems she may having with them

-You pray with her

-You give her your full attention.. no grunting responses while trying to watch tv, read the newspaper or write emails

-You discuss financial concerns, possible job changes, or ideas for the future

fun and easy marriage tipYour wife feels close to you when..

-You hold her hand

-You hug her

-You are affectionate without sexual intention

-You are with her alone so you can focus on each other and laugh together

-You go for a walk or jog.. anything that results in togetherness

-You seek her out.. Set up a date night.. eat by candlelight

-You go out of your way to do something for her, like run an errand

-You make it a priority to spend time with her

-You are aware of her as a person with mind and opinions. Let her know you enjoy discussing things with her and getting her insights.

-You suggest the unexpected.. get takeout and eat on the beach.. take a walk to see the full moon..

-You pillow talk after making love

Taken out of the book “Love and respect” Dr Emerson Eggerichs.

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!



(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)


(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
Ameen summa ameen

Når du er forent med en
du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
Inderlighet. God
giverglede skaper

Mood :)