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Allah does not burden a people more than what they can tolerateChuggle khaur is the person whom try make daraar between two people by saying or doing stuff that isn`t true to make two people go further away from each other. You can find these kinds of people everywhere. Some of them are jealous over your accomplishments and would want themselves to be in you shoes. They would do anything to try to hurt your relations and make your days turn grey taking away the sun by their words and actions.

Mark my words!!! Those people whom defend these chuggl khaur-people are going to also join them in jahannum for what they have done and still is doing, In sha Allah, Ameen summa ameen. Their plots and planning will not help them in jahannum. What surprises me is that if someone is seeing that they are doing something wrong, instead of defending the wrong they are doing and have done, why don`t the FB admins try to change them into a better person by giving them positive remarks about how they can become better.

We talk about leaders in different countries, about how mess they have done for the country they are leading. What about us? What kind of positive things are we doing for the community we live in. I hope that the people whom are poisoning the people wake up. Or at least their so-called friends around the world, wake them up, if they have any sence of justice in their heart at all.

You can say and do whatever you want, though it all boils down to one thing, if you are being mean to certain people on purpose, though they haven`t directly hurt you, it is you who have hurt yourself. Than that pain that you are throwing against them in form of chuggli will sooner or later fall back on you shoulders, and then what will help you is if the people you have deliberately hurt, will forgive you or not. Do you really want to take your issue that far. What kind of people are we if we can`t see others happy and do our outmost to instead make them miserable. What if they have worked hard for their happiness, how can you just come here and ruin everything. Certain people should seriously watch out for where they are heading, because chuggl khaur way leads to jahannum and nowhere else. May Allah protect us from these kinds of devilish plots and keep us safe away from the evil plots of people whom can`t see us happy. Ameen summa ameen.

children to this worldMost of us love children and want children in our lives. When I look at people I see a lot of them plan when to have a baby though for some it just happens. My opinion is that the children should only come to the world if there are two people whom would love the baby and give it the nurturing, love and care that it deserves. Therefore it is very important that the parents have are agreed about if and when they want babies. If not they disagree what could happen is that the child doesn`t get enough care and nurture to become a good human being. After all it is the next generations that are going to take control of the world when we are gone. If we don`t give them enough love and care from both parents than what kind of person would they become and what kind of world would they make?

It is important that the mother and father agrees about how many children they want in their lives. I guess that if they don`t one of them won`t put that much work into it, leaving the other with all the chores and drained. After all it is a great responsibility putting an individual into this world, and grown ups need to be ready for that responsibility. Not only be ready but agreed about how many. Although the father has his opinion, it is the mother that has the most hard job because of the delivery and 9 months. It is very important that she has a veto, in the decision-making. A father can`t take that good care of a child like the woman, because it is in her nature to be more caring and more emotional than the father.

I guess we all have an opinion about taking abortion and stuff and whether if it`s allowed in Islam. I know that if you take the life of the baby before the soul is put into the baby it is ok. Though I guess there are different opinions about this.

All i want to say is that I hate to see children that don`t get enough love from one or both of their parents. I think that those whom want a lot of children should think and re-think whether they have enough love to give them. A person that grows up without enough love would be in-complete and have a lot of issues throughout his/her life. I can`t bear to see people go through something like that. Although children are a blessing one should not bring an un-wanted child to this world. Marriage is for responsible people and they should be capable of taking that responsibility when they get married.

Another thing is that two individuals that are different gender can`t always think alike and have the same thoughts about everything. So they need to be open for discussion and agreeing even though they don`t always agree. Because they are two different people they need to be able to talk things over in a discussion without start the talk by quarreling. In a marriage mutual respect and understanding is a must even though one cannot always agree about everything.

The thought of a child not having good parents is very scary, and for the child that can`t take care of himself/herself it is important that the parents are agreed about the situations that can arise if one of the parents don`t put in the efforts that it takes being a parent. In worst cases, the community’s takes custody of the child where the parents don`t take good care of the children. That is another scary and sad picture and it is increasing in number. A lot of parents don`t know enough about bringing up a child here in the west. And the consequences of that could be severe for the child and the community, if they don`t manage to inject the right values into the child that they have put into this world.

Allahu AkbarAfter the Prophet (pbuh) suffered calamity at Uhud and the idolators went back, he feared that the idolators might try to come back and he said, “Who would follow them?”. Seventy men volunteered. This was recorded by Bukhari.

“Those unto whom the people said: “Verily, the people have gathered against you, therefore, fear them”. But it only increased them in faith”, (Quran 3:173).

It means, those who threatened the people, saying that the disbelievers have amassed against them, in order to instill fear in them, but this did not worry them, rather, they trusted in Allah and sought His help. Allah alone is Sufficent for us and He is the Best Disposer of affairs for us”.

Ibrahim said it when he was thrown in fire. Muhammad said it when the people said: “Verily the people have gathered against you, therefore fear them. But it only increased them in faith.

So they returned with grace and bounty from Allah. No harm touched them.

For when they relied on Allah, Allah took care of their worries, He confounded the plots of their enemies, and the muslims returned to their land. No harm touched them; safe from the wicked plots of their enemies.

“Verily Allah will help those who help his cause”. (Quran 22:40).

“O you who believe, if you help in the cause of Allah, Allah will help you”. (Quran 47:4)

“Verily we will indeed make victorious Our Messengers and those who believe, in this worlds life and on the Day when the witnesses will stand forth. The Day when their excuses will be of no profit to wrongdoers. Theirs will be the curse, and theirs will be the evil abode”. (Quran 40:51,52).

Extract taken out from tafsir ibn kathir.

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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December 2012
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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!



(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)


(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
Ameen summa ameen

Når du er forent med en
du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
Inderlighet. God
giverglede skaper

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