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bullyEvery person has some time in their life gone through some trials. I guess Allah only puts those people who he loves in afflictions and trials. So in a way it is a mercy, because one learns a lot from it. Be it good or bad.

I have seen people experience that other treat them in a bad manner of some way. In a way I would say they are trying to make them feel inferior of them. Make because they are jealous of them. It could be that they have some qualities that they would like to have in themselves, that makes them feel bad. So instead of learning from them, they treat them in a bad manner.

I have seen people being treated badly when they visit other relatives. Sometimes they indirectly make them feel bad in such a way that the person maybe don`t want to visit them again. Sometimes some other of the visitors can say some harsh things that they do on purpose, to make one feel bad about something. I don`t think those people would love to visit those people again.

I mean sometimes the bully’s, are doing their work so the way that others don`t see that they are bullying someone. Even if others can see that they are bullying, it is few that interfere between them to mend things someway or stop the bully’s, Believe me been there a lot of times. People just tend to ignore it, just because it`s not someone they may care about.

Some people get angry when a person bad-dua (a prayer to Allah against the oppressor) has done something awful to the bullies. Yes that they condemn. What about condemning the bullies, when he/she is bullying, so that the person who is being mistreated can be saved from the bullies. What happens then? No one says a word! When thing go so far that the person that is being mistreated says a bad-dua that comes true, some people come and make him/her feel bad about that. Shame on you! The people who can`t stop the bully has no right to say anything to that person that is saving himself/herself from he bully. Only he/she knows what he/she has gone through being bullied for years.

It is written in the Quran that one should repel evil with good. But when the one bully becomes a mob, it is not that easy to make that happen. Then one would need a great amount of support from ones loved ones. I guess the people can see those whom slap someone and the bully lying there hurt, but they can`t see that the bully actually said something really hurtful to the other person that was being mistreated. This is not fair. Don`t close your eyes to the fact that other might be mistreating some of your loved ones. Don`t bash out on them for being disrespectful, try to find out the underlying reason, behind their behaviour instead, and try to help them.

I guess it makes me thing about the fact that if a husband first slaps his face or hits her in the day, how can he expect that she will embrace him in the evening? This has not happened, it’s just an analogy. Instead of the name of the husband write bully and instead of the name of the wife write the one that is treated unfairly. If this was to appear when you go to visit your relatives, would you love to visit them again? I think there is an hadith about the fact that don`t mistreat your guests, when they come on a visit, treat them well, and your past sins will be forgiven. I guess, some people always has a harsh sentence waiting in their mouth to come out. What good will it do no judgment day? Not that much I guess, when your good deeds will be transferred to the victim for being in the condition of sabr.

To conclude I would say that if you see someone mistreating another try to find out who’s mistreating whom, and sometimes there`s a whole history of jealousy in the story. Making others feel inferior is not a good manner in anyone. Try to stand up against the bully on the victim’s side for once, because if the victims start taking things in their own hand, i guess the picture won`t be looking that nice anymore. I hope no one want that. Watch the video “casey heynes is the hero”, at youtube, and you`ll see what I meant by that.

Peace 😉

Most of us whom pray do supplicate after we have finished praying. Though what do we ask for? If I look at myself, I mostly ask for things of this world. We should also ask for good in the hereafter, or else what we will achieve will not be something that will last forever. Lately, I am supplicating for both the world and the Hereafter. Look at it this way, whom do you want to spend your life with forever and ever. Of course then you should pray for it, and make it happen. This world we only live for about 60-70 years but the Hereafter is forever. Why not think about how we want to spend our entirety of time for always. Alhamdolillah im trying, let`s do our best together 🙂

Allah encourages calling Him in supplication after remembering Him, because this will make it more likely that the supplication will be accepted. Allah also criticizes those who only supplicate to Him about the affairs of this life, while ignoring the affairs of the Hereafter. Allah said:

“But of mankind there are some who say: O Lord! Give us (Your bounties) in this world!” and for such there will be no portion in the Hereafter”.

What one should say is :

” Our Lord! Give us in this world that which is good an in the Hereafter that which is good, and save us from the torment of the Fire”.

Allah has said about those who supplicate this that:

” For them there will be alloted a share for what they have earned. And Allah is swift at reckoning”.

The supplication mentioned and praised in the Ayah includes all good aspects of this life and seeks refuge from all types of evil. The good of this life concerns every material request of well-being, spacious dwelling, pleasing mates, sufficient provision, beneficial knowledge, good profession or deeds, comfortable means of transportation and good praise, all of which the scholars of Tafsir have mentioned regarding this subject.

As for the good of the Hereafter, the best includes acquiring Paradise, which also means safety from the greatest horror at the gathering place. It also refers to being questioned lightly and the other favours in the Hereafter.

As for acquiring safety from the Fire, it includes being directed to what leads to this good en in this world, such as avoiding the prohibitions, sins of every kind and doubtful matters.

-Taken out of Tafsir Ibn Kathir-

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

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Saari duniya ke liye dard
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