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For every muslim it is very important to seek knowledge. It is said that one learns new things as long as one is alive, no matter how old one is. So of course one should try ones out most to seek as much knowledge one can, that is useful of course. If one has time and we alhamdolillah are muslims so why not. But remember always, that the person you are learning from, has the right aqeedah or are good muslims themselves. I would not like to learn something from people whom maybe after my opinion doesn`t have the love of Rasolallah sallalu alehi wasallam in their heart. They could be alime-e-deen for all i know, that doesn`t matter for me. To think of that one learns stuff from someone whom doesn`t even have the love of the Prophet (pbuh) who is so loved by us. No those kind of people I can not give my trust. Right aqeedah is very important or else one forget what is important in life to achieve the bounties in the hereafter.

Just a poem i wrote today for some motivation:) Want to share it with you:)

Putting aside all your worries,
relieving your heart with love and tears of joy,
I pray that you always are Happy,
without any tension and sorrow-free.

Some days are tougher than others,
because of the hurdles and troubles,
Know that Allah is our closest ally
He will grant us our wishes
and keep us safest.

We follow and praise Him every second.
He will make us see:
what is important to earn and to live,
the reward of the hereafter is full of bliss.

Everything will become easier and without any concern:
Put your trust in Allah,
and He will take care of the rest:)

Our worries will be long gone,
and happiness will fill our days,
those moments are not far away,
believe me:) it will soon be great:)

-InshaAllah ameen summa ameen-

A marriage is a sacred bond. And almost all of the people whom are married are aware over the fact that having a girl and guy friendship even after you have committed yourself to someone is not the best thing to do. Would you have liked it if your wife to be had a few good guy friendships? nahi na 😉 well not to worry 😉 But i am worried about you! I think any person that is committing themselves to someone, will only marry someone if they know that they are trustable. 110% trust is all i am asking for. Is that too much? Well that’s were the minimum in my heart:) So think about it before you make another step in the wrong direction.

I don`t believe that a friendship between the two genders are only a friendship. Somewhere somehow one of the persons can have feelings for the other. And then still going on with having a friendship is foolishness if you ask me. Especially if that is the case. So be wise 😉

Conclusion: Guy and girl friendhip
It is totally Unapproved!

I don`t have a lot of friends and there is a reason behind that. Which is that my experience is that mostly friends are not to be trusted. Some of them they give wrong advice and then oneself come into trouble or they might try to mislead you somehow so that they can gain something. Of course not all are like this, but I can say i haven`t been the luckiest in choosing friends. Those few friends I have i know i can trust, but i have stopped having contact with people whom i don`t know that much. Because I don’t know their real intention when they are friendly to me. Koi dosron ko ekdam parakh lete hain, for others take more time in understanding who your true friends are. I`ve had so many bad experiences that I hardly trust anyone anymore.

One should be careful whom one confides with because friends ones becoming the worst enemies, can make the biggest harm to yourself and your loved ones. So be wise:) The little circle of friends I have I know I can trust, can you say the same about your friends?

I really adore Pir Alaudin Siddiqui Sahib and like to watch Noor tv whenever i get time for it. I often watch his dars and it is MashAllah very enlightening. I remember today he was speaking about the fact that if every Muslim or Muslimah live their life according to Islam then inshaAllah also their prayers will be answered. And of course the other way around. Noor tv has many times written a hadees their ke ek muslim dosrein muslim ke liye dua karein to woh tab hi kabool hogi agar woh banda /bandi namaz partha hon ya parthi hon. Why am i writing about this today, yes because some people claim to say that one shouldnt go to our elders to make prayers for us. I don`t agree with that. What Pir Sahib used to say is that if you are a true muslim and follow the guidelines for Islam than your prayers will be answered. We know that if you have an income which is not halal or you eat something that is not halal than your prayers won`t be answered. So people come to Pirs as their followers and ask them to pray for them. Why not? First of all if someone prayers aren`t answered they could be praying for something that isn`t going to happen or maybe they have something un-halal in them. So of course, go to your Pirs and ask them to pray for you. Because these people are so enlightened and are true muslims indeed. Every person is near to Allah but some person prayer pehle kabool hoti hain. That we know, so their is nothing wrong in asking them to pray for you.

Another thing some people go to these Allah ke dost and make prayer directly to them, that is wrong. Only Allah can answer your prayer, noone else has the Power to do so. Lekin, in Allah ke doston ka vasila zaroor liya ja saktha hain ke unke tawassul se hamari prayer kabol ho jaye. Asking directly from anything else than Allah is shirk and such a major sin in Islam that Allah will never forgive it on judgement day.

Lying is something that is so common these days. People tell lies without thinking about the consequences and without any God-fear at all. What will make the liars to stop telling lies? Every person has one time or the other told a lie. The people need to understand that the lying wont give them anything else than misery in the hereafter. And what for are they doing this? To achieve what? A person that lies again and again is not seen as a trustworthy person and people don’t take what he says seriously, because they know that she / he has been lying before. The Prophet (pbuh) has said:

“Truthfulness leads to piety, and piety leads to Paradise. A man continues to speak truth until he is recorded in the sight of Allah as a sincere lover of truth (Siddiq). Falsehood leads to iniquity and iniquity leads to hell. A man will continue to speak falsehood until he is recorded in the sight of Allah as a liar”.

It is also mentioned in the Quran 22:30

” .. and shun the word that is false”.

The Prophet (pbuh) has said that giving false statements are almost in equal with the major sins with associating partners with Allah and being disobedient to ones parents. The Prophet said:

“Shall i not tell you of the most serious of the most serious of the major sins?” “of course O Messenger of Allah” He said ” associating partners with Allah and disobeying your parents” He was reclining but then He sat up and said ” and bearing false witness” and he kept repeating this until we wished that he would stop” (ie. so that he would not exhaust himself with his fervour.

Another chapter in the Quran says ( 25:72)

“Those whom witness no falsehood and if they pass by futility they pass it by with honourable (avoidance)”

In this means those who do not give no evidence that is false and those who do not assist in anything which implies fraud or falsehood.

How easily do we take Islam and don’t even look for the answers in the book (Quran), than how can we act upon it. It is so easy to point a finger at another person but what about ourselves. We all need to look inside of us and see if any of these characteristics are in us than we need to get rid of them as soon as possible so our remaining life will remain in peace. Each and every person that is on this earth needs to look within themselves and try their out most to stop themselves if they are lying without any valid reason.

In case we need to save a life or someone would be killed if we tell the truth, then it is better that for a while we remain quiet. Eventually the truth will come out, so no need to worry at all.

Another ayat in the Quran about giving respite to the people (from our Quran 14:42) :

” Think not that Allah doth not heed the deeds of those who do wrong. He but giveth them respite against a day when the eyes will fixedly stare in horror”.

Another ayat about giving respite says: (Quran 16:61)

“If Allah were to punish men for their wrongdoing, He would not leave on the (earth) a single living creature: But He gives them respite for a stated term: when their term expires, they would not be able to delay (the punishment) for a single hour, just like they would not be able to anticipate it for a single hour.”

Don`t for a moment think that you or anyone can go around being evil to someone without being accountable for it. Either in life or the hereafter each and every will have to give their explanation to Allah. We are only given some time from Allah that we might straighten up, in case we do it is for our own good, if we don`t than it will be our own doom.

However, it is Allowed to lie in three matters according to a hadith, the Prophet (pbuh) said:

“It is not lawful to lie except in three cases; Something the man tells the wife to please her, to lie during the war and to lie in order to bring peace between people”.

(Source book the Ideal Muslimah and Jami`At-Tirmidhi)

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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August 2011
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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!



(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)


(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
Ameen summa ameen

Når du er forent med en
du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
Inderlighet. God
giverglede skaper

Mood :)