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Each and every person in this world has some people who has different types of expectations towards that individual. Sometimes there are clashes between these expectations. Your parents, your beloved, your sister, your brother; all these people have their way to live their life. My way isn`t always different from my loved ones, but they have their way of thinking and I have mine. This wasn`t so much of an issue before. But I`ve realized that sometimes I would really want to do things my way:) Or our way:) Of course since I`m the youngest one in the family, they think that I don`t know that much and for them I`m always gonna be “choti si gudiya”. Sometimes I feel a bit forced by people around me to do things their way. And I`ve learned that there is no point in arguing with people who are elder than you, cause boy oh boy they really know how to make you feel bad 😉 hehe so what to do then? 🙂 So I`m going to follow my own suggestion from my first post that I wrote the time I started to blog, simply trust yourself, do what you think is right, and stand for your decisions:) Inshallah sab theek hoga:)

Something fun happened today. I just have to share it:) I was sitting in my livingroom and as you know it has been a quite warm day even if it wasn`t that sunny all day. Sitting and chilling on the sofa while the door to the livingroom is open, so we can get some fresh air, when suddenly we get a visitor:) Just out of nowhere comes this beautiful butterfly flying in to the room and flyes around. It was so much fun and so beautiful:) It flyes around for a bit and takes a breath on our picture of Madina sharif hanging on the wall. Der sitter den på bildet og flakser litt med vingene sine.. Det var så kult å se på 😀 Akkurat som om den så på Madina sharif:) Så flyr den tilbake til vinduet og vil fly ut.. Incredible na:) I helped it out and saw it flying away.. Really nice:) And me hehe.. 😉 All I could say was “look at the butterfly” over and over again 😉

Some people just don`t get it and have no respect for the women in this world. I know there are people like this in this world! Yup, you can call them woman-hater or just buggers. They can be anywhere. One thing they forget is that one day they themselves might get a daughter than how will they protect her? Some people just don`t have any godfear! It doesn’t matter for me whether they are a christian, hindu, sikh or a person who doesn’t believe in a God, one thing is for sure. A universal line, if those people won`t stop bugging others`women than one day they will get it back! Simple!

I`ve seen that there are a lot of asian families that are settled abroad, whom don`t seem to know the importance of learning the language of the country they settle in. Without knowing the language they face a lot of difficulties throughout their lifetime, from upbringing of their kids till when they grow old. Who haven`heard about a kid who has called to the doctor for his parents just because they can`t speak the language. The kids have to act like a grown up helping their parents understand what is said. This has an extremely bad effect on the children. Too much burden is put on their shoulders. They don`t get the chance to be kids when they ARE just kids.

Every person that lives abroad should understand that both the parents should know the language of the country they are earning their living in. Mostly what happens is that the father is out working and the mother is home taking care of the kids. But how can she help them fully without knowing enough about what`s happening outside their home or without knowing how to communicate in norwegian. She wouldn`t be able to help the kids which could lead to giving them a bad start. Which again could hunt them for the rest of their life. The kids needs support and if they won`t find it at home they`ll seek it elsewhere and could easily bump into bad company.

This issue arises mostly in families where they marry someone from Asia whom they bring abroad. Meaning that one of the partner is well established here. On the contrary the parents who came here in the late 1970 have given their children lots and lots of support to help them become a good contributer to the society. More and more of asian girls are taken higher education now. The boys are following but still are a bit behind. Finally most of these young adults are know seeing the benefit of finding a companion also brought in the same country as them, who also have parents that came from Pakistan to Norway. Maybe meaning less hassle, more understanding and supportiveness towards each other and a healthier life for the couple.

The bottom line is don`t hold back the partner in the relationship. Let both of you take the responsibility of being in an companionship. Both of you should stribe to be an active part of this society and become a wonderful parent. For that some basics are needed. And i believe that learning the language has one of the highest ranks on that list 🙂

The people who are thankful at all times has a gift within themselves. I surely do hope they know about that. I often think about that whenever life is tough it is so easy to just say, that today it`s been too much for me. But when you come to think about the fact that life is a test, than that thought kind of disappears. More or less. Whenever I`m down I take a look around myself and see how much
there is that I take for granted that I have. Or maybe take a look at the people around me whenever I`m walking to town. I think a lot about the fact that there is no person in this world that has a perfect life, we people have some good qualities as some not that good qualities and whatever we do there will always be something we can do better, and no matter which end you look in the one person you are looking at may have difficulties that you don`t, just like you have some worries that they don`t. When one looks at life in perspective that does help a lot. Like prioritizing what is important in life.

That is how life is, a test that we need to pass. Each and every has their share of ups and downs. Happy moments are a part of life just like sad times. If life would always been great and sorrow free than we might not have appreciated all the happy moments that much, would we? 🙂 I do find peace when I think about this. Life is truly a treasure. Being happy at all the small and big joys of everyday life sparkles up your soul. When one finds peace within one starts passing that brightness to the people around yourself and life becomes more and more beautiful.

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!



(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)


(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
Ameen summa ameen

Når du er forent med en
du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
Inderlighet. God
giverglede skaper

Mood :)