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I sought for love

But love ran away from me

I sought my soul

But my soul I couldn’t see

Than I sought you

And I found all three..

– By unknown –

Hmm.. I have the worse memory ever about things I should remember being at home or at work :p Though I admit it doesn’t bother me too much 😀 Maybe because whenever I`m out with my loved ones I always remember those moments that are so precious.. Remembering all these moments with my friends and my loved ones makes me realize that it`s exactly what life`s about. Remembering each moment that is so close to you, that it makes you smile from the heart. What can be more beautiful than that? 🙂

I`ve always liked this phrase a lot. It puts me on the right track whenever I get influenced by the media in the wrong direction. The media creates a picture of how one should look like, how thin and perfect. And I can see how it messes up the minds of our younger generation as well as the adults I would dare to say.

I`ve often heard people say things like look at that actor/ actress pointing to the television when they`re watching a movie. No one withholds himself/herself from commenting the weight of the actors/actresses. And they don’t simply stop here, nope, they would comment each and every person they know from their appearance / weight. This reminds me of a sentence from a song by Alicia keys “if I ain`t got you”. “some people think that the physical things define what`s within. I`ve been there before. That life`s a bore so full of the superficial “.

The media makes us believe that if you`re thin and nice looking than BHAM you`ll succeed in anything. If you`re not all that than no problem just fix it with a surgery or something… people actually fall into these traps without thinking of the fact that if they don’t feel that good about their appearance it`s their thoughts they have to do something with. They need to work on their self esteem, to know that their personality is all that should matter to them. I do agree with the fact that one should keep oneself fit. That would keep us away from several diseases that come from overweight. So going to the gym regularly would keep us healthy and should be a goal for us no matter what our weight is.

“The charisma a person radiates, having the right universal values, treating others with kindness, spreading positivity around you, striving to become a better person and pushing others towards positivity as well.. Now that’s what we should really be thinking about… “

How can we judge someone by their weight/appearance? Don’t get me wrong I know the importance of being neatly dressed. But some people tend to give it so much more importance than we should, and creates and divides people in A and B groups. When you meet someone at work or anywhere else, the first thing you notice would be the appearance and the first impression is very important. But yet the kindness a person elevates should be what we should look at more than anything. I`m sure that it would make a bad impression on you if you talk to a well dressed but hostile person that makes you feel even worse about yourself. You wouldn’t prefer talking to that person again, now would you??? Even though that person is attractive???

The bottom line is: let`s look at what`s really important here in life. Seeing peoples beauty from within how they behave towards us and how kind they are to themselves and their surroundings.

Today it`s just about a few days less than two weeks till your coming home. It feels as if you`ve been away a century… Even though I talked with you just yesterday, I`m missing you like crazy today… You we`re so right you know.. You are always so right.. You know what I miss the most? It`s your hugs… And the fact that whenever you come home after work you`ll always come rushing to my room to check how I`m doing.. You know me so well… Dad has talked with you twice a day.. And I know ke aap humesha sab se pehle mera hi haal pochti hain.. Dad has become so quiet and I just don’t know how to open him… Aap nahi hain tou who subha sham khabrein hi suntein rehtein hain.. Aap mana karne keliye nahi hain na… Meri baat who kahan suntein hain… Dad`s missing you so much too you know, maybe that’s why he has become so quiet… I try my best to spend time with him. But lets` face it you’re the most talkative of all of us na 🙂

I remember the other day when we had aftari for the whole family and you were here as well. We had a great time didn`t we 🙂 You love it when the whole family is gathered all the joy and laughter… I remember a comment from you this night. You said, addressing everyone, wouldn`t it have been lovely to have Roshnis Jaan here as well.. You knew how much I was missing him… Wow we missed you so much on Eid you know… This is the first time we`ve celebrated an Eid without you…

You know, when you`re not around being at work or like nowadays you being in Pakistan, I can sort of see a jhallak of you in your friends and all the aunties I meet. It`s like I feel closer to you when I`m with them.. And hugging them feels like I`m hugging you…

Sometimes both of us think about the day when I`ll leave this house for a my new home with hmm.. I know that would be wonderful coz Mum`s going to take loads of care of me just like you do here.. And I know a burden will be taken off your shoulders. Coz you know Jaan will take so good care of me na 🙂 Someone who will take care of me always, actually we would be taking care of eachother all the time 🙂 And there will be the brightest smile on your face when you`ll see us together.

Miss you so much Mum… Can`t wait for you to come back home… Take loads of care of yourself… Love you so much…

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!



(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)


(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
Ameen summa ameen

Når du er forent med en
du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
Inderlighet. God
giverglede skaper

Mood :)