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Sometimes there can be people that can say things that have a sharp edge. And maybe you start hating them. I know one thing that is that one can`t ever go around without disliking any person sometime or the other. But i have learned one thing throughout the years which is the following: never hate the person but hate their actions. The person could have had a lot of reasons for the behaviour.

Ones` Iman will never be mukammil until the day you pray for the very next person what you would pray for yourself. So if someone ever hurt you again just start remembering that person in your prayers… Ask Allah to give that person the bestest of guidance and show the right path.. And keep safe and sound.. That would relieve your hurt, you would feel so much better knowing that your asking for the best for that person. Of course it will only count if you sincerely care for that person.. As you know as i do God knows everything and knows whats best for everyone.. 🙂

I`ve thought about this several times. Slandering has become so common these days. Sometimes at a workplace, between acquaintances, home or some friends it can happen everywhere… If someone has a problem with anyone the first thing they`ll do is to talk behind their back with people they know. Probably try their best to give the worst picture of that person to others just to make themselves look better. What actually happens is that this makes the person slandering look even worse in the eyes of the person they are slandering with. People tend to try the easy way out, which in my view is lot worse than what it seems. Instead of talking to the person they have an issue with. To try to resolve it somehow. They`ll tell everyone else about the issue they have. But the person that it`s about doesn’t know anything or he/she will hear it from someone else. This “disease” is common in all types of cultures and I can surely say one thing gender wise it`s more common between girls than boys. The other side of the coin is that this also leads to different types of clicks… someone freezing out others by keeping them out of the “inner circle”. It could be that they`re jealous about something or that they dislike something about them or want to prove themselves being “right” or being better in a way.

My opinion is that I don’t really want to be friends with slanderers. I mean how can I know that they`ll not talk behind my back when I`m not there??? I`ve always thought one thing that if you don’t have anything nice to say than please simply zip it / stay quiet… And I do stand for that. I try my best to live up to this motto. Whenever someone comes to me and complains about someone I always try to make the other one understand that there are so many reasons behind this. Just because you look at it this way doesn’t mean that the other person also does that. Each and every person has their own perspective. Another person can have thousand other issues in his/her life that makes him/her behave in a special manner.

Even though I don’t have that many friends I know I can trust the ones I have with anything and that they`ll always be there for me just like I`ll be there for them. I value them a lot. The same goes for my loved ones 🙂 What really impresses me is when people try to find the best in others and always try to do what is right.. That makes me very happy :)Instead of putting others in a bad light of course 🙂 Someone who deliberately tries to pull a person down is having a bad time himself/herself. But is just not able to tell anyone…

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My Prayer..

“O Allah, place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light and make me a light. O Allah, grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light.” Ameen

Bukhari and Muslim

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Surah 105 Al Fil

Let not man be intoxicated with power, Or material resourses, They cannot defeat. The purpose of Allah. So Abrahah Ashram Found to his cost. His sacrilegious attack On the holy Fane of Allah brought about His own undoing:what seemed but frail Destroyed his mighty hosts in a day!

The foolproof tip of the day for everyone else!



(",) My Mum always says that
you should marry someone
who loves you more than you
love him, because that man
would never ever make you cry
or be the reason that your
sheding tears. He would do
anything to always keep you
happy and satisfied (",)


(“,) Your heart is mine and mine is yours, and so it`s been since I`ve known love`s true meaning itself, holding each others hand we stand together beneath the lovely sky, gazing towards the same destiny, just U and I (“,)

Naat/hamd-Quote of the moment :)

Saari duniya ke liye dard
se mahmor hain jo..
Ik faqat Rehmat-e-aalam
hi ka seena dekha..

Ye sab tumhara
karam hain Aka
ke baat ab tak
bani hoyi hain..

Ehsas dein toofik dein..
Phir jazbaen Siddiq dein..

Kya ye zarra likhein
Shaan Unki, jin pe
bejhein Salaam
khud Khudai..

Quote of the moment :)

Though we might sometimes
have to struggle through thick
or thin,We will receive each
other’s support to be there to
win..And we will blossom like
this through eternity..
Ameen summa ameen

Når du er forent med en
du elsker, er det ingenting
du ikke klarer :)

Gode ord skaper tillit.
Gode tanker skaper
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Mood :)