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A few years back I remember I was all into Bollywood or songs and all that it contains. Though in a period of time I started to think over what I was doing. I thought a lot about whether this would give me any sawabh and if it is morally correct to listen to songies that contains somewhat fahashia. So I changed. Suddenly one day when I woke up I went to the computer with my Ipod and deleted all the songies and let all the Naats to be there. From that day on I only listen to naats and some songs that have nice and decent lyrics. That was a change in me that started for more than a year ago.
Nowadays Im reading a lot about Islam to get more knowledge so that I can know how to behave in certain circumstances from hadees sharif and lots of other islamic books. It has given me guidelines in how to behave and different types of manners that I before didn`t even know were Islamic. I`ve been lucky and had amazing help in getting me on the right track, so I want to share it, so that more people can benefit from it. Even though we all have our mistakes I can recall a lot of hadees and correct myself that In that circumstance I shouldn`t have done that or in that circumstance I should have done that. This is going to help me in my struggle to become a better human being and inshaAllah a Mominah one day.
What I want to share with you people is that if we listen to songies that have a bad ingredient and watch tv-serials that tells us more about un-islamic things than that would have a very bad effect on our spirit, our spirituality and us being a muslim. My mum always tells me that if you start repenting early in your life for your past mistakes than most of your life will be nice and rest of your life will become more prosperous, but if you start repenting when you are in your seventy`s than for one you wouldn`t be able to pray properly, for your life has passed by in negligence. It`s time for us to wake up and realize what is important in life. Which is to strive to become a better human being and a better Muslim/Muslimah to one day be invited to Jannah, InshaAllah. Ameen summa ameen.
Each individual in this world have their own set of values they strive for. People that are different can have the same values and people who are alike can have different values. Sometimes one come by people who have different set of living their lives than yourself. I know that I have much to learn from my surroundings, just like maybe you have from yours
I hope that when people look at someone they see beyond that persons looks. Actually it`s mostly the personality that shines when you talk to someone. For instance that your soul glows up when you’re talking about someone or something you really like a lot. It could be that you’re talking about your special somebody or perhaps some of your hobbies. All in all it`s the values you have and the personality you have that shines through yourself; your proactiveness, your kindness of how you deal with people, your attitude towards life, the positivism which is injected in you
a person that can see you for what you are
that is a person to hold on to..
People one needs to stay away from are those that pay more attention to if you’re wearing the right dress or using the right sweater brand. That which doesn`t mean anything. People that treat other differently depending on what they own, are superficial people who doesn`t have their heart beating for the right reasons, as I see it.
I know that the one person I`m the most strict with is myself. I put my standards very high and if something happens I get very disappointed in myself. Although I`m not known as the strictest person at home and certainly not from my nieces but I know in myself that being like this must be some of the reasons why I sometimes can be very strict towards some of my loved ones. Sometimes maybe my expectations are too high or their actions beyond my understanding which leads to me feeling very let down.
Wow, wouldn’t it be nice if one managed to not expect anything from anyone? If someone than did something nice you would appreciate it and if they did something less nice you would just brush it off your shoulders and move on.
Wow, wouldn`t that be nice?
